If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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For Rope Events Please Check out the NY Rope Collective Calendar 5:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Nov 30 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 1 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 1 @ 10:00 am – Dec 2 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Impact! 10:00 pm
Impact! @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Dec 1 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 2 @ 3:00 am
IMPACT! Fetish Tribe’s monthly event! For IMPACT we have an amazing newly built private space in lower Manhattan with tons of new equipment, six rigging stations, and plenty of room to play, so you don’t[...]
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC 10:00 pm
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC @ Parthenon
Dec 1 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 2 @ 3:00 am
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
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17th Annual MAsT Holiday Potluck Social 2:00 pm
17th Annual MAsT Holiday Potluck Social @ LGBT Center
Dec 2 @ 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm
MAsT Metro New York meets monthly, generally on the first Sunday of the month, from 2:00 – 5:00pm. All meetings are held at the LGBT Center at 208 W 13th Street, New York, NY (between[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 2 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Dec 3 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 3 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 4 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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TES Presents: Makeup for Feminization and Gender Fuckery with Polly Pox 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Makeup for Feminization and Gender Fuckery with Polly Pox
Dec 4 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Makeup holds a place of power in our society – a symbol of high femme, often considered transgressive for cis men, and a wickedly useful tool for gender fuckery and gender transformation. Come learn from[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 4 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 5 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Brooklyn Rope Bite 7:00 pm
Brooklyn Rope Bite
Dec 5 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hacienda Studio Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/146535 one block from Myrtle-Broadway stop; exact location provided upon RSVP   @ mapCost:$10 at the door.Dress code:No restrictions: whatever feels good.Description: Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Dec 5 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
TES Presents: The Dynamics of Pain – Rhythms in Impact, with Rein 7:30 pm
TES Presents: The Dynamics of Pain – Rhythms in Impact, with Rein
Dec 5 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Do you feel like you’re on auto pilot during impact play? In this class we’ll be discussing: The choices we don’t know we’re making during our impact scenes. How both physical and mental factors can[...]
Hole-y Trinity: Threesomes 8:00 pm
Hole-y Trinity: Threesomes @ Pleasure Chest
Dec 5 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hole-y Trinity: Threesomes @ Pleasure Chest
Hole-y Trinity: Threesomes with Leon Wednesday, December 5th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Who says three’s a crowd? Let’s toss the old rules out the window when we talk about how to negotiate[...]
How To Please A Woman: An Introduction (Squirting Tutorial Included) 9:15 pm
How To Please A Woman: An Introduction (Squirting Tutorial Included) @ 3F studios
Dec 5 @ 9:15 pm – 10:45 pm
The female body is intricate, complex, and beautiful. Every vulva is different, like a snowflake. While there is no “one size fits all” techniques when it comes to pleasing a vulva owner there are many[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Dec 6 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Hacienda Social: Pool Party 8:00 pm
Hacienda Social: Pool Party @ pin Room Mate Grace Hotel
Dec 7 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 8 @ 1:00 am
Hacienda Social: Pool Party @ pin Room Mate Grace Hotel
Take a dip into the warm water of the Grace Hotel pool 💦 It’s the perfect reason to get out of the house and out of your clothing👙 We’re turning it up to a steamy[...]
Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Dec 7 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 8 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Dec 7 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 8 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 8 @ 10:00 am – Dec 9 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Poly Cocktails NY 7:00 pm
Poly Cocktails NY @ The Delancey – upstairs on roof deck
Dec 10 @ 7:00 pm – 11:30 pm
Who to bring/invite We attract a wide range of people who are in open relationships or identify as polyamorous. If you are curious about this lifestyle, or have questions about your current relationship, this is[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 10 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 11 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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TES Fetish Workers Group – Censorship & Sexuality: Kink, LGBTQIA Rights, Sex Work, & YOU! 7:30 pm
TES Fetish Workers Group – Censorship & Sexuality: Kink, LGBTQIA Rights, Sex Work, & YOU! @ NY
Dec 11 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Over the last year, many changes in the legal landscape that affect members of sexual minorities have occurred. While individual laws and policies appear to affect only one community, such as sex workers, the LGBTQIA[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 11 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 12 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Curious Fox Holiday Soirée 7:30 pm
Curious Fox Holiday Soirée @ New Women Space
Dec 12 @ 7:30 pm – 11:00 pm
IMPORTANT: You MUST reserve your seat at our private registration page. Please register each guest separately at tickettailor.com/events/curiousfox/215219 Thank you!! ———————————– Curious Fox is a community for those who challenge the status quo when it comes to[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Dec 12 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
TES Hypno Group: Atmosphere, Mood, and Tone, with D’artagnon 7:30 pm
TES Hypno Group: Atmosphere, Mood, and Tone, with D’artagnon
Dec 12 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Consider the state of mind you need to be in to have a good hypnotic scene? Surely some such states come to mind. Think about the overall feel and energy that scene needs to have,[...]
Down & Dirty for the Holidays 8:00 pm
Down & Dirty for the Holidays @ Pleasure Chest
Dec 12 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Down & Dirty for the Holidays @ Pleasure Chest
Down & Dirty for the Holidays with Carly Wednesday, December 12th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Add some spice to this holiday season with our best sex tips, tricks and games! We’ll discuss[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Dec 13 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Dec 13 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
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Pagans Retreat :: A Weekend in Paradise 7:00 pm
Pagans Retreat :: A Weekend in Paradise @ Pagans Paradise
Dec 14 @ 7:00 pm – Dec 16 @ 1:00 pm
DESCRIPTION Pagans Paradise presents: a weekend intensive Erotic Retreat! Location in Jersey City!! Connect with your partner like never before. Whether it’s a stay-cation a vacation or somewhere in between. Jet away to a sex[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Dec 14 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 15 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Dec 14 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 15 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 15 @ 10:00 am – Dec 16 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Dec 16 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 16 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
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Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 17 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 18 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 19 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
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Board of Directors Meeting 7:00 pm
Board of Directors Meeting
Dec 20 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card or number. If you will need elevator access, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Dec 20 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 22 @ 10:00 am – Dec 23 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 26 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Dec 27 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 28 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 29 @ 10:00 am – Dec 30 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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