If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 31 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 1 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Sep 1 @ 10:00 am – Sep 2 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Impact! 10:00 pm
Impact! @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Sep 1 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 2 @ 3:00 am
IMPACT! Fetish Tribe’s monthly event! For IMPACT we have an amazing newly built private space in lower Manhattan with tons of new equipment, six rigging stations, and plenty of room to play, so you don’t[...]
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC 10:00 pm
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC @ Parthenon
Sep 1 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 2 @ 3:00 am
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 2 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Sep 2 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 3 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
SUSPENSION 9:30 pm
SUSPENSION @ The Delancey Lounge
Sep 2 @ 9:30 pm – Sep 3 @ 3:00 am
SUSPENSION @ The Delancey Lounge
SUSPENSION is back on Sunday Sept 2nd Labor day weekend! No School on Monday kidz! This is one of our biggest nights of the year, don’t miss it!! SUSPENSION has not gone away. We will[...]
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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Sep 3 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Sep 3 @ 8:00 pm – Sep 4 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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TES Bondage Group: Intro to Rope Bottoming with Anya Demure 7:30 pm
TES Bondage Group: Intro to Rope Bottoming with Anya Demure
Sep 4 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
In this class, Anya Demure will discuss important bottoming skills such as body awareness, communication, and vetting. She will also touch on physical and emotional aspects of safety before, after, and during a scene. This[...]
TES: Intro to Rope Bottoming with anyademure 7:30 pm
TES: Intro to Rope Bottoming with anyademure @ tbd
Sep 4 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/680449 Cost:TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only In this class, @Anya Demure will discuss important bottoming skills such as body awareness, communication, and vetting.[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 4 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Sep 5 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Brooklyn Rope Bite 7:00 pm
Brooklyn Rope Bite
Sep 5 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hacienda Studio Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/146535 one block from Myrtle-Broadway stop; exact location provided upon RSVP   @ mapCost:$10 at the door.Dress code:No restrictions: whatever feels good.Description: Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Sep 5 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
TES Presents: Dim​ ​Mak​ ​-​ ​Five​ ​Fingers​ ​of​ ​Death, with Ramon 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Dim​ ​Mak​ ​-​ ​Five​ ​Fingers​ ​of​ ​Death, with Ramon
Sep 5 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
There are several types of pressure points – each is applied differently and each creates a different sensation. “”Pain points””, for example, use tendons, ligaments, and muscles – the goal is to temporarily immobilize the[...]
Dirty Talk & Roleplay 8:00 pm
Dirty Talk & Roleplay @ The Pleasure Chest
Sep 5 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Dirty Talk & Roleplay @ The Pleasure Chest
Dirty Talk & Roleplay with Nico Wednesday, September 5th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Learn to please your partner using dirty language, prurient pillow talk, and filthy fantasies. Go beyond “playing doctor” to[...]
Fashion show soh 9:00 pm
Fashion show soh
Sep 5 @ 9:00 pm – 10:00 pm
 
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NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 7 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Sleepover Amber’s to sat night 3:30 pm
Sleepover Amber’s to sat night
Sep 7 @ 3:30 pm – 4:30 pm
 
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 7 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Restlessness: A Shibari Party 9:00 pm
Restlessness: A Shibari Party
Sep 7 @ 9:00 pm – Sep 8 @ 2:00 am
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/700634 Cost:$75 through eventbrite Dress code:fetish finery, all black, burner fashion, elegant, dress up to get down A party featuring performance by renowned rope artist Marika Leïla Roux (Gorgone). Oz & Quinn will host this immersive event,[...]
Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Sep 7 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 8 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Sep 7 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 8 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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GORGONE Rope Intensive
GORGONE Rope Intensive @ Hacienda
Sep 8 – Sep 9 all-day
LiNK: https://fetlife.com/events/702132 Cost:$650 per Duo Dress code:Wear comfortable clothing like yoga or dance attire. Loose fitting clothing can feel a bit restrictive to move around in and difficult to tie on. Who can come to[...]
TES Presents: Get Schooled 8:00 am
TES Presents: Get Schooled
Sep 8 @ 8:00 am – Sep 9 @ 2:00 am
Summer’s nearly over, and that can only mean one thing: school is back in session! So put on your naughtiest school uniform, shine the pledge paddle, and join TES on Saturday, September 8th as we[...]
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Sep 8 @ 10:00 am – Sep 9 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 8 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 8 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Novice & Newcomers Munch: Back to School Edition 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Munch: Back to School Edition
Sep 8 @ 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a[...]
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NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 9 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Training and Management Styles 2:00 pm
Training and Management Styles @ LGBT Center
Sep 9 @ 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm
MAsT Metro New York meets monthly, generally on the first Sunday of the month, from 2:00 – 5:00pm. All meetings are held at the LGBT Center at 208 W 13th Street, New York, NY (between[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 9 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Sep 9 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 10 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 9 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
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NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 10 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Intro to Gorgone 7:00 pm
Intro to Gorgone @ HACIENDA
Sep 10 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 11 @ 10:00 am
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/699909 Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/intro-to-gorgones-style-tickets-49231953097 Hacienda Studio and Oz will host a 3-hour workshop with the renowned rope artist Marika Leïla Roux, also known as Gorgone. Her method and approach to ropes is heavily influenced by[...]
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 10 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Poly Cocktails NY 7:00 pm
Poly Cocktails NY @ The Delancey – upstairs on roof deck
Sep 10 @ 7:00 pm – 11:30 pm
Who to bring/invite We attract a wide range of people who are in open relationships or identify as polyamorous. If you are curious about this lifestyle, or have questions about your current relationship, this is[...]
Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Sep 10 @ 8:00 pm – Sep 11 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 10 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 11 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 11 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 11 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
TES Presents: A Conversation about Spanking with CJ and Ms. Margaret 7:30 pm
TES Presents: A Conversation about Spanking with CJ and Ms. Margaret
Sep 11 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Did you know Spanking can be as Expansive as your Imagination? Learn how 2 players can start a Conversation and with clarity, begin to express their needs and desires in a Scene / Relationship Topics[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 11 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 12 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Sep 12 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 12 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Post Gorgone Rope Practice 7:00 pm
Post Gorgone Rope Practice @ Hacienda
Sep 12 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/695578 Cost:$10 at the door (or pay what you can) Dress code:whatever feels comfortable! Hacienda is hosting a performance, intensive, and class with Gorgone this September!! Talk about a triple-header! But attending amazing classes[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Sep 12 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
TES Presents: Masocurios, with Jinx and Jaden 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Masocurios, with Jinx and Jaden
Sep 12 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Join Jaden and Jinx for an enlightening conversation on masochism and kink. By sharing their personal experience and advice, struggles with scene stereotypes, and individual journeys from masocurious to masoconfirmed, Jaden and Jinx hope to[...]
Pussy Pleasing 8:00 pm
Pussy Pleasing @ The Pleasure Chest
Sep 12 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Pussy Pleasing @ The Pleasure Chest
Pussy Pleasing with Emma Wednesday, September 12th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Orgasms. Maybe you’ve never had one, maybe you have but you’re still not sure what all the fuss is about, or[...]
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NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 11:00 am
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 13 @ 11:00 am – 12:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema | New York | New York | United States
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Sep 13 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema 7:00 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Sep 13 @ 7:00 pm – 8:45 pm
NYC: Nelly at The Village East Cinema @ Village East Cinema
Nelly Arcan shocked the literary world with elegant phrasing and lurid details in her semi-autobiographical first novel, Putain, which became an international best-seller in 2001. Nelly’s fragmented life is laid bare in a stylish mix[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Sep 13 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
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Rigger’s Paradise 8:30 pm
Rigger’s Paradise
Sep 14 @ 8:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/697518 Cost:$20 for everyone (Donation) Dress code:Bring it in your naughty school uniform, Fetish wear, latex, leather, etc. “I’ve been naughty this summer. Won’t you please tie me to my desk and teach me[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Sep 14 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 15 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Entangled – A Shibari Dance Party “ Brought to you by Resonance, Vibe Tribe and Hacienda” 10:00 pm
Entangled – A Shibari Dance Party “ Brought to you by Resonance, Vibe Tribe and Hacienda”
Sep 14 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 15 @ 4:00 am
fetlife LINK: https://fetlife.com/events/707521 Cost:$30-$50 ticket link : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/resonance-vibe-tribe-presents-entanglement-goldcap-sam-shure-tal-tickets-49613269625 Dress code:Whatever makes you feel good about yourself. No exposed genitals please. Description: Entanglement: the condition of being deeply involved. What is a condition? A state of[...]
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Sep 14 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 15 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Sep 15 @ 10:00 am – Sep 16 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Naughty Schoolgirl Leather and Lace 10:00 pm
Naughty Schoolgirl Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Sep 15 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 16 @ 3:45 am
Naughty Schoolgirl Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Special Saturday Night catering to couples & singles Spankings for those that deserve them! The swinger party for those who enjoy a little spanky along with their hanky panky! Unlike other such events the emphasis is[...]
Saturday Leather and Lace 10:00 pm
Saturday Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Sep 15 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 16 @ 4:00 am
Casual to Sexy..your choice…EVERYONE is required to be well groomed regardless of what they are wearing! Fetish wear welcome! Its Leather and Lace’s Monthly Saturday Night Event! This month’s theme is Naughty School Girl Night!!! This[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Sep 16 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 16 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Sep 16 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 17 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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TES Writers Group: It Takes Brain To Make The Words Go 7:00 pm
TES Writers Group: It Takes Brain To Make The Words Go
Sep 17 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
So You’ve got an idea for a peice. Maybe its a character. Maybe its the ending. Maybe it’s a specific phrase that you can’t get out of your head. But what about the rest of[...]
Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Sep 17 @ 8:00 pm – Sep 18 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 17 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 18 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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No Class (Yom Kippur) 7:30 pm
No Class (Yom Kippur)
Sep 18 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
No class Tuesday, September 18th. G’mar Tov to all our Jewish friends; may you have an easy fast. For everyone else, enjoy your night off, and we’ll see you on Wednesday!
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 18 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Sep 19 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
TES Presents: So You Wanna Host A Munch, moderated by Zero 7:30 pm
TES Presents: So You Wanna Host A Munch, moderated by Zero
Sep 19 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Back in the early ’90s, a group on alt.sex.bondage decided to meet offline at a burger joint in Palo Alto, California. The result was the first “”Burgermunch””, later shortened to “”munch””.* Since then, the munch[...]
BDSM Basics 8:00 pm
BDSM Basics @ The Pleasure Chest
Sep 19 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
BDSM Basics @ The Pleasure Chest
BDSM Basics with Leon Wednesday, September 19th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Do you want to explore BDSM in the bedroom? Let our Sex Specialists show you how to plan a kinky scene,[...]
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RambleGRUE IV 2:00 pm
RambleGRUE IV @ Darlington
Sep 20 @ 2:00 pm – Sep 23 @ 4:30 pm
For details, link here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ramblegrue-iv-tickets-47143124354
RAMBLEGrue 4:30 pm
RAMBLEGrue
Sep 20 @ 4:30 pm – Sep 23 @ 5:30 pm
Link: http://www.grue.space/ramblegrue/ The GRUE is an event built to harness the passion of the people who show up to learn, share, and experience together. Rather than pre-select presenters and classes, each day there is a self-organizing process by which[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Sep 20 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
TES Board Meeting 7:00 pm
TES Board Meeting
Sep 20 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a valid membership card.
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 20 @ 8:00 pm – Sep 21 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
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DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm
Sep 21 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Spanking Party 7:00 pm
Spanking Party
Sep 21 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 22 @ 12:00 am
The Spanking Party is exactly as it sounds – a night dedicated to those who enjoy spanking and being spanked. Whether bare-handed or implement in hand, spanking brings with it a certain kind of exhilaration, for both the[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Sep 21 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 22 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Ozornik’s Black Light Birthday Bash! 9:00 am
Ozornik’s Black Light Birthday Bash! @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 22 @ 9:00 am – Sep 23 @ 2:00 am
Come join us for a night of kinky fun under UV lights. Get your pervy faces and fabulous bodies painted by make-up and body-paint artists, or get frisky with your palms and fingers yourself and[...]
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Sep 22 @ 10:00 am – Sep 23 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Sexual Health Expo 11:30 am
Sexual Health Expo @ Brooklyn EXPO Center
Sep 22 @ 11:30 am – 6:00 pm
A groundbreaking event dedicated to promoting sexual health and wellness, Sexual Health Expo (SHE) is an upscale event that puts a stylish touch on sex-ed. Anchored by exclusive workshops hosted by the nation’s top “sexperts”[...]
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Sexual Health Expo 11:30 am
Sexual Health Expo @ Brooklyn EXPO Center
Sep 23 @ 11:30 am – 6:00 pm
A groundbreaking event dedicated to promoting sexual health and wellness, Sexual Health Expo (SHE) is an upscale event that puts a stylish touch on sex-ed. Anchored by exclusive workshops hosted by the nation’s top “sexperts”[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 23 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Sep 23 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 24 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
Slutty Sunday 7:00 pm
Slutty Sunday @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 23 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Slutty Sundays – A night dedicated to women who love to play with men and the men who adore them. This night features couples, single women and respectful gentlemen who like to play in the[...]
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PEGGING: AN INTRODUCTION TO BUTT STUFF 7:30 pm
PEGGING: AN INTRODUCTION TO BUTT STUFF @ 3F Studios
Sep 24 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Pegging: A sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating with a strap-on dildo. Congratulations prostate owners, you are a lucky bunch. YOU-yes you-have the privilege of both being[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 24 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 25 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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CFNM 7:00 pm
CFNM @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 25 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
TES Board Elections: Meet the Candidates! 7:00 pm
TES Board Elections: Meet the Candidates!
Sep 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
Open Love NY Discussion Group 7:30 pm
Open Love NY Discussion Group @ Manhattan Theater Club
Sep 25 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
 
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 25 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 26 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Sep 26 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Hacienda Rope Share -TBD 7:00 pm
Hacienda Rope Share -TBD
Sep 26 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
 
TES Hypnokink Group Presents: Let’s trance! 7:30 pm
TES Hypnokink Group Presents: Let’s trance!
Sep 26 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Come out and explore ideas you have and learn from experienced mentors at the September Hypnokink meeting. Have questions or want to work something out? This is a great event if you learned something recently[...]
Suck It, Lick It, Love It 8:00 pm
Suck It, Lick It, Love It @ The Pleasure Chest
Sep 26 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Suck It, Lick It, Love It @ The Pleasure Chest
Suck It, Lick It, Love It with Ryan Wednesday, September 26th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Our Sex Specialists share tips and tricks to get you in the spirit of giving and receiving[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Sep 27 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 27 @ 8:00 pm – Sep 28 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer) 8:00 pm
Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer) @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Sep 27 @ 8:00 pm – Sep 28 @ 12:00 am
Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer) @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
  Calling all poly, swinger, kink, LGBTQIA and other “alternative” dating, sex & gender folks and their allies. We’re creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations and community. For those of you new[...]
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DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm
Sep 28 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Sep 28 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
Beat and Bang 9:00 pm
Beat and Bang @ DecadenceNYC
Sep 28 @ 9:00 pm – Sep 29 @ 2:00 am
Cover: $60 for Couples and $100/$120 for single men before/after 11pm. Single women are complimentary. For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is[...]
3rd, 4th & 5th Friday “Open Parties” 10:00 pm
3rd, 4th & 5th Friday “Open Parties” @ Spread
Sep 28 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 29 @ 2:00 am
Welcome to the world of Spread, Brooklyn’s brand spanking new Play Space. Spread is located 3 blocks from the Barclays Center and Atlantic Mall. We are near the LIRR and most train lines off the[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Sep 28 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 29 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Sep 29 @ 10:00 am – Sep 30 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Sensation Tasting and Afterparty 7:00 pm
Sensation Tasting and Afterparty
Sep 29 @ 7:00 pm – Sep 30 @ 1:00 am
Sensation Tasting and Afterparty @ New York | United States
This Sensation Tasting event is an opportunity for everyone to explore and experience or ask questions or just watch a range of sensations and play styles in one evening. We have curated a bunch of[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Sep 30 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Sep 30 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 1 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night