If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 31 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 1 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
Orgasmic Meditation @ The Roxy 1:00 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ The Roxy
Aug 1 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 1 at 1:00 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman 1:30 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman
Aug 1 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 1 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 1 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Brooklyn Rope Bite 7:00 pm
Brooklyn Rope Bite
Aug 1 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hacienda Studio Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/146535 one block from Myrtle-Broadway stop; exact location provided upon RSVP   @ mapCost:$10 at the door.Dress code:No restrictions: whatever feels good.Description: Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Aug 1 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
Butt Sex Basics 8:00 pm
Butt Sex Basics @ The Pleasure Chest
Aug 1 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Butt Sex Basics @ The Pleasure Chest
Butt Sex Basics with August Wednesday, August 1st 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) In this workshop, no topic on taking it up the ass is taboo. Learn why a warm-up is important before[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 2 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Conscious Nightlife: TurnON NYC 8:00 pm
Conscious Nightlife: TurnON NYC
Aug 2 @ 8:00 pm – 9:30 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, August 2 at 8:00 PM Welcome to our conscious nightlife series! • What we’ll doWe will lead you through 3 communication games. We do have fun. We do get real. It[...]
TURNON DINNER: An intimate supper 8:00 pm
TURNON DINNER: An intimate supper @ OneTaste
Aug 2 @ 8:00 pm – 9:00 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, August 2 at 8:00 PM We invite you to join us for a unique dining experience, combining food and an intimate conversation exploring topics of desire, truth, and sexuality…. https://www.meetup.com/OneTasteNewYork/events/251356259/
TurnON Social: The New Networking 8:00 pm
TurnON Social: The New Networking
Aug 2 @ 8:00 pm – 9:30 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, August 2 at 8:00 PM We invite you to an evening of a new kind of networking. Meet new people who are interested in living life based on vulnerability, connection, and[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 2 @ 9:00 pm – Aug 3 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:00 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 3 @ 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 3 at 1:00 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:00 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 3 @ 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 3 at 1:00 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:30 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 3 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 3 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Aug 3 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 4 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 3 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 4 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 4 @ 10:00 am – Aug 5 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Cakehole: Where The Sun Does Shine! 9:00 pm
Cakehole: Where The Sun Does Shine! @ Super Sekkrit Midtown Dungeon
Aug 4 @ 9:00 pm – Aug 5 @ 3:00 am
Cakehole is a queer-friendly, consent-oriented, do-it-yourself sex and BDSM play party in NYC for everyone. Everyone has a cakehole. Register here on Eventbrite. The password is “eatcake” **Registration is open NOW! Invitations with the address[...]
Impact! 10:00 pm
Impact! @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 4 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 5 @ 3:00 am
IMPACT! Fetish Tribe’s monthly event! For IMPACT we have an amazing newly built private space in lower Manhattan with tons of new equipment, six rigging stations, and plenty of room to play, so you don’t[...]
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC 10:00 pm
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC @ Parthenon
Aug 4 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 5 @ 3:00 am
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
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Identifying and Overcoming Mistakes in Building M/s Relationships (or TBD special presentation) 2:00 pm
Identifying and Overcoming Mistakes in Building M/s Relationships (or TBD special presentation) @ LGBT Center
Aug 5 @ 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm
MAsT Metro New York meets monthly, generally on the first Sunday of the month, from 2:00 – 5:00pm. All meetings are held at the LGBT Center at 208 W 13th Street, New York, NY (between[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 5 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Aug 5 @ 7:00 pm – Aug 6 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Aug 6 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
TES Writers Group: Writing from a Different Perspective 7:00 pm
TES Writers Group: Writing from a Different Perspective
Aug 6 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
It can be complicated to put yourself in another person’s shoes, and it’s not much easier when that person is one of your characters. Join TES Writer’s Group for a discussion on how to write[...]
Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Aug 6 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 7 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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Improving Your Rope Technique, with Andra Poloutropon 7:00 pm
Improving Your Rope Technique, with Andra Poloutropon
Aug 7 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
This class will be taught using the “masterclass” format, but is open to students of all levels. For those unfamiliar with the format, a single student will get up and demonstrate something. The teacher provides[...]
AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 7 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 8 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 7 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
TES: Improving Your Rope Technique, with Andra Poloutropon 10:00 pm
TES: Improving Your Rope Technique, with Andra Poloutropon
Aug 7 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 8 @ 1:00 am
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/691465 Cost: TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Dress code:Street legal, comfortable to tie This class will be taught using the “masterclass” format, but[...]
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Orgasmic Meditation @ The Roxy 1:00 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ The Roxy
Aug 8 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 8 at 1:00 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman 1:30 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman
Aug 8 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 8 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 8 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Brooklyn Rope Bite 7:00 pm
Brooklyn Rope Bite
Aug 8 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hacienda Studio Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/146535 one block from Myrtle-Broadway stop; exact location provided upon RSVP   @ mapCost:$10 at the door.Dress code:No restrictions: whatever feels good.Description: Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Aug 8 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
Being a Thug: Rough Body Play, with Dov 8:00 pm
Being a Thug: Rough Body Play, with Dov
Aug 8 @ 8:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Having fun and playing with hands on, punching, wrestling, pressure points. Boot kicking and general manhandling your bottom into submission. How to do it safely for both the top and bottom. TES Members $5 Students[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 9 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Aug 9 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
TurnON Social: The New Networking 8:00 pm
TurnON Social: The New Networking
Aug 9 @ 8:00 pm – 9:30 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, August 9 at 8:00 PM We invite you to an evening of a new kind of networking. Meet new people who are interested in living life based on vulnerability, connection, and[...]
TURNON WELCOME: Wellness just got interesting 8:00 pm
TURNON WELCOME: Wellness just got interesting @ OneTaste
Aug 9 @ 8:00 pm – 9:00 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, August 9 at 8:00 PM There is a frontier of wellness that we have not crossed into. It’s vulnerable. It involves intimacy and connection. It’s changed our lives, our relat… https://www.meetup.com/OneTasteNewYork/events/251356311/
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 9 @ 9:00 pm – Aug 10 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:00 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 10 @ 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 10 at 1:00 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:30 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 10 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 10 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
Riggers Paradise 6:00 pm
Riggers Paradise @ Spread
Aug 10 @ 6:00 pm – Aug 11 @ 3:00 am
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/687770 Cost:$20 for everyone (Donation) Dress code:Come as you are (Jesus Said so) “Tie me up. Then you have my permission to spank me”. YOU MUST RSVP AS GOING! Play to South African House[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 10 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 11 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Aug 10 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 11 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 11 @ 10:00 am – Aug 12 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 12 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Aug 12 @ 7:00 pm – Aug 13 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Poly Cocktails NY 7:00 pm
Poly Cocktails NY @ The Delancey – upstairs on roof deck
Aug 13 @ 7:00 pm – 11:30 pm
Who to bring/invite We attract a wide range of people who are in open relationships or identify as polyamorous. If you are curious about this lifestyle, or have questions about your current relationship, this is[...]
Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Aug 13 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 14 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman 1:30 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman
Aug 15 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 15 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 15 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Novice and Newcomers Group: Sensual Domination, with Spike and mj 7:00 pm
Novice and Newcomers Group: Sensual Domination, with Spike and mj
Aug 15 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
The definition of “sensual” is 1. affecting any of the senses; and 2. relating to gratification of the physical and especially the sexual appetites. Sensual domination encompasses both aspects of the definition, controlling sensations in[...]
Diving Deeper: Next Level Anal 8:00 pm
Diving Deeper: Next Level Anal @ The Pleasure Chest
Aug 15 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Diving Deeper: Next Level Anal @ The Pleasure Chest
Diving Deeper: Next Level Anal with Matan Wednesday, August 15th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) For those who like to push the boundaries of butt loving, we’re excited to offer this advanced workshop[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 16 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
TES Board Meeting 7:00 pm
TES Board Meeting
Aug 16 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
TURNON GAMES: Ignite your evening 8:00 pm
TURNON GAMES: Ignite your evening @ OneTaste
Aug 16 @ 8:00 pm – 9:00 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, August 16 at 8:00 PM Participate in an evening that invites a new depth of honesty and connection. You will be guided through a series of communication games by teachers w…[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 16 @ 9:00 pm – Aug 17 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:30 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 17 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 17 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
LSM Presents: Rope Bondage 101 w/ Yin Q 8:00 pm
LSM Presents: Rope Bondage 101 w/ Yin Q
Aug 17 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/689693 Cost: $5 Members, $10 Nonmembers Rope Bondage–beautiful, artistic, and sensual. This is a introductory workshop to learn the basics of tying wrists, ankles, and a chest harness. We will start with the fundamentals[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 17 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 18 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 18 @ 10:00 am – Aug 19 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Cirque Nouveau 10:00 pm
Cirque Nouveau @ House of Yes!
Aug 18 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 19 @ 3:00 am
Cirque Nouveau @ House of Yes!
Step right up and enter the darker side of the cirque, beyond the glow of the carnival lights… We invite you into the shadow of the House of Yes big top for a night of[...]
Leather and Lace Bikini Bash 10:00 pm
Leather and Lace Bikini Bash @ Pendulum
Aug 18 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 19 @ 4:00 am
Leather and Lace Bikini Bash @ Pendulum
Leather and Lace Bikini Bash Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Special Saturday Night catering to couples & singles Dressing within theme is not mandatory – however it is suggested. The swinger party for those who[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Aug 19 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 19 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Sex Lit (Stoya’s Book Club) OR Rated Sex (Stoya’s Film Club) 6:00 pm
Sex Lit (Stoya’s Book Club) OR Rated Sex (Stoya’s Film Club) @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Aug 19 @ 6:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Sex Lit (Stoya's Book Club) OR Rated Sex (Stoya's Film Club) @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Every third Sunday: Sex Lit (Stoya’s Book Club) OR Rated Sex (Stoya’s Film Club) Buy tickets | Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife 6-9pm, 21+ (25+ suggested), $20 Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK[...]
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Aug 19 @ 7:00 pm – Aug 20 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Aug 20 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 21 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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TES Bondage Group: Open Rope Share with Zero 7:30 pm
TES Bondage Group: Open Rope Share with Zero
Aug 21 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Come join TES Board Member and Chair of DMs, Safety, and Socials for an open rope share. Bring rope, learn some new skills, share some you already have! Note: this room requires removal of shoes[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 21 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
TES Bondage Group: Body Awareness and Connection in Rope, with BoundtoFly 10:00 pm
TES Bondage Group: Body Awareness and Connection in Rope, with BoundtoFly
Aug 21 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 22 @ 1:00 am
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/691479 Cost: TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Dress code:Street legal, comfortable to tie
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Hacienda Rope Share 12:30 pm
Hacienda Rope Share
Aug 22 @ 12:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/695531 Cost:$10 at the door (or pay what you can) Dress code:whatever feels comfortable! Join us for a community-centered rope gathering! Whether you’re new to bondage or have been suspending for years, the Hacienda[...]
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman 1:30 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman
Aug 22 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 22 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm
Aug 22 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 22 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Shenanigans and Fuckery – Escape From This One! with Jackal 7:00 pm
Shenanigans and Fuckery – Escape From This One! with Jackal
Aug 22 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Welcome everyone! Jakal here, with a class that will teach you the basics for creating inescapable ties. Have you ever tried to tie up your friend, partner, cousin, stuffie, kitchen chair, etc just to see[...]
The More the Merrier: Double+ Penetration 8:00 pm
The More the Merrier: Double+ Penetration @ The Pleasure Chest
Aug 22 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
The More the Merrier: Double+ Penetration @ The Pleasure Chest | New York | New York | United States
The More the Merrier: Double+ Penetration with Ryan Wednesday, August 22nd 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Why not have it all?! This class will fill you with possibilities for having all the penetration[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 23 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party
Aug 23 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 24 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer) 8:00 pm
Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer) @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Aug 23 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 24 @ 12:00 am
Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer) @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
  Calling all poly, swinger, kink, LGBTQIA and other “alternative” dating, sex & gender folks and their allies. We’re creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations and community. For those of you new[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 23 @ 9:00 pm – Aug 24 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:30 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 24 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 24 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm
Aug 24 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Beat and Bang 10:00 pm
Beat and Bang
Aug 24 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 25 @ 2:00 am
Cover: $60 for Couples and $100/$120 for single men before/after 11pm. Single women are complimentary. For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 24 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 25 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Sodom And Gomorrah •SPREAD Kink•Brooklyn,NY• 11:00 pm
Sodom And Gomorrah •SPREAD Kink•Brooklyn,NY• @ Spread, Brooklyn
Aug 24 @ 11:00 pm – Aug 25 @ 3:00 am
For one night every other month SPREAD brings you “Sodom And Gomorrah”. A Custome play party where all things taboo, freaky, scary and hardcore are all partners under one roof for one night. We welcome[...]
Deadline to announce candidacy for 2018 Board Elections 11:30 pm
Deadline to announce candidacy for 2018 Board Elections
Aug 24 @ 11:30 pm – 11:59 pm
Any current member who has been a member in good standing for one year is eligible to run for the Board of Directors! Stay tuned for more info!
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 25 @ 10:00 am – Aug 26 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
End of Summer Curvy Fling 10:00 pm
End of Summer Curvy Fling @ Pendulum
Aug 25 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 26 @ 3:30 am
End of Summer Curvy Fling @ Pendulum
End of Summer Curvy Fling Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Saturday, August 25, 2018 10:00pmEnding at Sunday, August 26, 2018 04:00am We will be celebrating ushering in fall on August 25th! Curvy[...]
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Hitchin’ Bitches NYC 2:30 pm
Hitchin’ Bitches NYC @ Spread
Aug 26 @ 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/687037 Cost:$10pp Dress code:Comfortable to be tied Welcome to the NYC Chapter of Hitchin’ Bitches International. This is a space for women riggers/rope tops/dominants to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 26 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Aug 26 @ 7:00 pm – Aug 27 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
Slutty Sunday 7:00 pm
Slutty Sunday
Aug 26 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Slutty Sundays – A night dedicated to women who love to play with men and the men who adore them. This night features couples, single women and respectful gentlemen who like to play in the[...]
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Aug 27 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 28 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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CFNM 7:00 pm
CFNM
Aug 28 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Kink 101 – Intro to all things BDSM and play parties! 7:30 pm
Kink 101 – Intro to all things BDSM and play parties! @ 3F Studios
Aug 28 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Kink 101 - Intro to all things BDSM and play parties! @ 3F Studios | New York | New York | United States
Kink 101 – Intro to all things BDSM and play parties! Kink 101 – Intro to all things BDSM and play parties! – Tue 7:30-10 pm Pagans Paradise & Daddy Retreat presents a Delightful Dungeon[...]
Open Love NY Discussion Group 7:30 pm
Open Love NY Discussion Group @ Manhattan Theater Club
Aug 28 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
 
The Law & Fetish Workers, with Meanstreakmilewide 7:30 pm
The Law & Fetish Workers, with Meanstreakmilewide
Aug 28 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Join us as we hear from a criminal defense lawyer who’s got a “meanstreakmilewide.” Some of the topics covered will include: Dos and Don’ts when interacting with law enforcement;what happens when a lawyer needs to[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 28 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman 1:30 pm
Orgasmic Meditation @ Maman
Aug 29 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Wednesday, August 29 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doThis is an event for people who have NOT been trained in Orgasmic Meditation yet. – Are your relationships failing or are you[...]
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm
Aug 29 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 29 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Brooklyn Rope Bite 7:00 pm
Brooklyn Rope Bite
Aug 29 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hacienda Studio Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/146535 one block from Myrtle-Broadway stop; exact location provided upon RSVP   @ mapCost:$10 at the door.Dress code:No restrictions: whatever feels good.Description: Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space[...]
TES Hypnokink Group 7:30 pm
TES Hypnokink Group
Aug 29 @ 7:30 pm – 10:30 pm
Stay tuned for more info! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only
Pegs Over Easy 8:00 pm
Pegs Over Easy @ The Pleasure Chest
Aug 29 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Pegs Over Easy @ The Pleasure Chest
Pegs Over Easy with Santos Wednesday, August 29th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Is your bedroom buddy just begging for a pegging? In this workshop, we’ll teach you how to incorporate pleasurable booty[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 30 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party
Aug 30 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 31 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 30 @ 9:00 pm – Aug 31 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals 1:30 pm
You Can Have It! Success in Intimacy for Professionals
Aug 31 @ 1:30 pm – 2:30 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, August 31 at 1:30 PM • What we’ll doYou Can Have It! You’ve sacrificed your personal life to build your career and it’s now a total success! Yet when you stop[...]
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm
Aug 31 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 31 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
Beat and Bang 10:00 pm
Beat and Bang
Aug 31 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 1 @ 2:00 am
Cover: $60 for Couples and $100/$120 for single men before/after 11pm. Single women are complimentary. For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Aug 31 @ 10:00 pm – Sep 1 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]