If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

Join us for our next Sensation Tasting on November 3rd at Gemini and Scorpio Loft in Brooklyn

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NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Sep 30 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 1 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Oct 1 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
TES Writers Group: Ministry of Silly Voices 7:00 pm
TES Writers Group: Ministry of Silly Voices
Oct 1 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Writing accents is difficult, especially when you can’t hear it out loud. Bring your latest work and get it read- in either a serious and applicable voice, or a very sill one. All forms of[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 1 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 2 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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TES Presents: Everything But The Kitchen Kink- Combining Different Forms of Play to Create Unique Scenes, with Zero 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Everything But The Kitchen Kink- Combining Different Forms of Play to Create Unique Scenes, with Zero
Oct 2 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Electro-needles!?! Knife wrestling!?! Fire stomping!?! Combining multiple forms of play can be a great way to create unique and memorable scenes, break out of stale routines, and get more out the toys already in your[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 2 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Oct 3 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Oct 3 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
Trick Whips: Whip Cracking Fundamentals, with Aaron Bonk 7:30 pm
Trick Whips: Whip Cracking Fundamentals, with Aaron Bonk
Oct 3 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
This class will cover the basics of whip cracking technique as well as offer technical advice to more advanced students. Recognizing that people are often at different skill levels, the instructor will do his best[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 4 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 4 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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subCON NYC 2018 10:30 am
subCON NYC 2018 @ Alchemical Studios
Oct 5 @ 10:30 am – 10:00 pm
subCON NYC 2018 @ Alchemical Studios | New York | New York | United States
subCON NYC is the event to attend this fall to learn new skills and techniques, share your own thoughts, and socialize with other s-types. subCON NYC is a convention where all of the education is[...]
Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Oct 5 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 6 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Oct 5 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 6 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Oct 6 @ 10:00 am – Oct 7 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
subCON NYC 2018 10:30 am
subCON NYC 2018 @ Alchemical Studios
Oct 6 @ 10:30 am – 10:00 pm
subCON NYC 2018 @ Alchemical Studios | New York | New York | United States
subCON NYC is the event to attend this fall to learn new skills and techniques, share your own thoughts, and socialize with other s-types. subCON NYC is a convention where all of the education is[...]
Unconventionally Intimate 2:00 pm
Unconventionally Intimate @ Theatre Row
Oct 6 @ 2:00 pm – 4:30 pm
Unconventionally Intimate @ Theatre Row | New York | New York | United States
unconventionally intimate Written & Performed by Alexandra LaPlante Directed by Brooke M. Haney Alex is a fearless woman who loves falling in love. And she’s done a lot of it. With men, with women, with[...]
Dan Savage’s HUMP! Film Festival 5:00 pm
Dan Savage’s HUMP! Film Festival @ Roulette
Oct 6 @ 5:00 pm – 11:00 pm
13th Annual Touring Festival 2017-2018: About HUMP! The HUMP! Film Festival has been bringing audiences a new kind of porn since 2005. The festival features short dirty movies—each less than five minutes—all created by people[...]
Impact! 10:00 pm
Impact! @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Oct 6 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 7 @ 3:00 am
IMPACT! Fetish Tribe’s monthly event! For IMPACT we have an amazing newly built private space in lower Manhattan with tons of new equipment, six rigging stations, and plenty of room to play, so you don’t[...]
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC 10:00 pm
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC @ Parthenon
Oct 6 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 7 @ 3:00 am
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
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subCON NYC 2018 10:30 am
subCON NYC 2018 @ Alchemical Studios
Oct 7 @ 10:30 am – 10:00 pm
subCON NYC 2018 @ Alchemical Studios | New York | New York | United States
subCON NYC is the event to attend this fall to learn new skills and techniques, share your own thoughts, and socialize with other s-types. subCON NYC is a convention where all of the education is[...]
Raven Kaldera and his boy Joshua join us to discuss the book “Real Service” 2:00 pm
Raven Kaldera and his boy Joshua join us to discuss the book “Real Service” @ LGBT Center
Oct 7 @ 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm
MAsT Metro New York meets monthly, generally on the first Sunday of the month, from 2:00 – 5:00pm. All meetings are held at the LGBT Center at 208 W 13th Street, New York, NY (between[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 7 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Oct 7 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 8 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Poly Cocktails NY 7:00 pm
Poly Cocktails NY @ The Delancey – upstairs on roof deck
Oct 8 @ 7:00 pm – 11:30 pm
Who to bring/invite We attract a wide range of people who are in open relationships or identify as polyamorous. If you are curious about this lifestyle, or have questions about your current relationship, this is[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 8 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 9 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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TES Novice & Newcomers: Intro to Flogging with ComtesseAurora 7:30 pm
TES Novice & Newcomers: Intro to Flogging with ComtesseAurora
Oct 9 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Flogger?! I hardly Know’er! Interested in floggers, top or bottom, but don’t know where to start? Not sure what a flogger even is?! Come find out! Bring floggers if you have them, or get to[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 9 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Oct 10 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Brooklyn Rope Bite 7:00 pm
Brooklyn Rope Bite
Oct 10 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hacienda Studio Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/146535 one block from Myrtle-Broadway stop; exact location provided upon RSVP   @ mapCost:$10 at the door.Dress code:No restrictions: whatever feels good.Description: Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space[...]
P.S.A.L.M. (Park Slope Alternative Lifestyles Munch) 7:00 pm
P.S.A.L.M. (Park Slope Alternative Lifestyles Munch) @ The Douglass
Oct 10 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Are you seeking a non-judgemental place where ALL walks of life, including your own, are accepted? Looking for a no pressure event where you can meet new people without (mainstream or kink) assumptions? Looking to[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Oct 10 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
TES Presents: Life in Plastic – Doll Play 101 with Alex and Madeline 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Life in Plastic – Doll Play 101 with Alex and Madeline
Oct 10 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Dehumanizing a partner can be a very dark activity or it can be very fun and cute. Doll play, normally considered a subset of dehumanization play, can also go either way. We will focus on[...]
Cock Happy 8:00 pm
Cock Happy @ Pleasure Chest
Oct 10 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cock Happy @ Pleasure Chest | New York | New York | United States
Cock Happy with Matan In this class, you’ll learn the anatomy of the penis while exploring arousal patterns. Discover how to expand orgasmic experiences through breath work and other techniques and learn about the different[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 11 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 11 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Oct 11 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
Artgasm by Lioness: Celebrating Art & Sex on National Coming Out Day 8:00 pm
Artgasm by Lioness: Celebrating Art & Sex on National Coming Out Day @ Pleasure Chest
Oct 11 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Artgasm by Lioness: Celebrating Art & Sex on National Coming Out Day @ Pleasure Chest
Artgasm by Lioness: Celebrating Art & Sex on National Coming Out Day Celebrate pleasure at the national launch of Artgasm (orgasm art gallery) by Lioness, hosted at all three metropolitan locations at Pleasure Chest! (NY,[...]
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SPREAD Presents Riggers Paradise Hosted by Venus Cuffs X Kiss Me Deadly Doll X NYC Hitchin’ Bitches 12:00 pm
SPREAD Presents Riggers Paradise Hosted by Venus Cuffs X Kiss Me Deadly Doll X NYC Hitchin’ Bitches
Oct 12 @ 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm
Eventbrite link( Early Bird tickets available until 10/5/18(: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/riggers-paradise-tickets-50689444493 FetLife link: https://fetlife.com/events/711607 In this October edition of Riggers Paradise, Venus Cuffs (a self proclaimed Dominant and Sadist… rope Switch… Don’t ask) teams up with the[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Oct 12 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 13 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Oct 12 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 13 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Oct 13 @ 10:00 am – Oct 14 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
New York Female sub/slave Forum Meeting 2:00 pm
New York Female sub/slave Forum Meeting @ Purple Passion
Oct 13 @ 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm
Yes, we did just have a meeting, but we were asked to change the date…. Greetings to fellow sisters in submission, The New York Female sub/slave Forum is a real-life support group that is dedicated[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 14 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Oct 14 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 15 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 15 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 16 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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TES Presents: Pain Processing Panel, moderated by Jinx 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Pain Processing Panel, moderated by Jinx
Oct 16 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Pain is the experience of intense sensation, and a dynamic, significant part of BDSM. But what is it? More importantly, why and how do we receive it, and enjoy it? In a scene, how much[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 16 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Oct 17 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Amateur Burlesque Night! 7:00 pm
Amateur Burlesque Night! @ House of Yes
Oct 17 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Amateur Burlesque Night! @ House of Yes
DESCRIPTION TAKE IT OFF! Everyone can get almost-naked on stage, and now you can too… in front of an audience, under the spotlight, on the House of Yes stage! Come see the hilarious brilliance of[...]
CANCELLED 7:30 pm
CANCELLED
Oct 17 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Due to unforeseen circumstances, this class has been cancelled. Thank you for your understanding, and please keep an eye out for programming updates.
Ultimate O: Expanding Your Orgasm 8:00 pm
Ultimate O: Expanding Your Orgasm @ Pleasure Chest
Oct 17 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Ultimate O: Expanding Your Orgasm @ Pleasure Chest | New York | New York | United States
Ultimate O: Expanding Your Orgasm with Matan Maybe you’ve never had one, maybe you have but you’re still not sure what all the fuss is about, or maybe you’re an orgasm overachiever with an unquenchable[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 18 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 18 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
The Poetry Brothel: Season of the Witch 7:00 pm
The Poetry Brothel: Season of the Witch @ House of Yes
Oct 18 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
The Poetry Brothel: Season of the Witch @ House of Yes
Welcome to a special Halloween edition of Poetry Brothel – a unique and immersive poetry event that takes poetry outside classrooms and lecture halls and places it in the lush interiors of a bordello. The[...]
Debunking Sex Myths That Ruin Lives 7:30 pm
Debunking Sex Myths That Ruin Lives @ Hacienda Villa
Oct 18 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
DESCRIPTION “Women never want casual sex; men always do.” “Most women orgasm from penetration alone.” “If your partner is ‘the one,’ your sexual desire for them will never wane.” Every day we are bombarded with[...]
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Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Oct 19 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 20 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Oct 20 @ 10:00 am – Oct 21 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Oct 21 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
The Dark TeaTime of Rope 2:55 pm
The Dark TeaTime of Rope @ HBAR
Oct 21 @ 2:55 pm – 6:00 pm
LINK: https://fetlife.com/events/706387 Cost:Suggested donation of $5 Dress code:not naked to the door Description: Feeling that Sunday blues? Come do some rope! This is social and play event for those that already have experience with rope(*).[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 21 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Oct 21 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 22 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 22 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 23 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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Annual Membership Meeting and 2018 Board of Directors Elections 7:00 pm
Annual Membership Meeting and 2018 Board of Directors Elections
Oct 23 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
CFNM 7:00 pm
CFNM @ DecadenceNYC
Oct 23 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 23 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm @ DecadenceNYC
Oct 24 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Oct 24 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
TES Hypnokink Group – Quickies 7:30 pm
TES Hypnokink Group – Quickies
Oct 24 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
A variety of new and established presenters give short presentations! An announcement of people that will be presenting is forthcoming! It’ll be great fun. Do you have an idea for a class you’ve been mulling[...]
Blowjobs & Beyond 8:00 pm
Blowjobs & Beyond @ Pleasure Chest
Oct 24 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Blowjobs & Beyond @ Pleasure Chest
Blowjobs & Beyond with Carly Wednesday, October 24th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Want to have them squirming in their seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands,[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Oct 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
TES Board of Directors Meeting 7:00 pm
TES Board of Directors Meeting
Oct 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
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RopeCraft:Austin
RopeCraft:Austin
Oct 26 – Oct 28 all-day
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/674647 Website: http://www.ropecraft.net/ two days of classes including an extra-long deep dive session to start out each day along with a Ropenspace and more. The company is knotty, the city is weird, the pool[...]
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Friday PlayGroup 4:00pm
Oct 26 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Oct 26 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
Beat and Bang 9:00 pm
Beat and Bang @ DecadenceNYC
Oct 26 @ 9:00 pm – Oct 27 @ 2:00 am
Cover: $60 for Couples and $100/$120 for single men before/after 11pm. Single women are complimentary. For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Oct 26 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 27 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Sodom And Gomorrah •SPREAD Kink•Brooklyn,NY• 11:00 pm
Sodom And Gomorrah •SPREAD Kink•Brooklyn,NY• @ Spread, Brooklyn
Oct 26 @ 11:00 pm – Oct 27 @ 3:00 am
For one night every other month SPREAD brings you “Sodom And Gomorrah”. A Custome play party where all things taboo, freaky, scary and hardcore are all partners under one roof for one night. We welcome[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Oct 27 @ 10:00 am – Oct 28 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Hitchin’ Bitches – NYC 2:30 pm
Hitchin’ Bitches – NYC
Oct 28 @ 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm
 
Hitchin’ Bitches NYC 2:30 pm
Hitchin’ Bitches NYC @ Spread
Oct 28 @ 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/701583 Cost:$10pp Dress code:Comfortable to be tied Welcome to the NYC Chapter of Hitchin’ Bitches International. This is a space for women riggers/rope tops/dominants to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 28 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Oct 28 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 29 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
Slutty Sunday 7:00 pm
Slutty Sunday @ DecadenceNYC
Oct 28 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Slutty Sundays – A night dedicated to women who love to play with men and the men who adore them. This night features couples, single women and respectful gentlemen who like to play in the[...]
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Heart of Shibari: Rope With Midori 5:30 pm
Heart of Shibari: Rope With Midori
Oct 29 @ 5:30 pm – 8:30 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/713776 Class size limited to 4 pairs Doors open 5:00pm for check in. Instruction from 5:30pm – 8:30pm (Instruction starts promptly. Please don’t be late) This is not your usual rope bondage class… Midori[...]
Foot Fetish Mondays 10:00 pm
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 29 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 30 @ 4:00 am
Foot Fetish Mondays @ The Eagle NYC
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CFNM 7:00 pm
CFNM @ DecadenceNYC
Oct 30 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
TES Presents: Bangin’ BJs – Tips and Tricks for the Cocksucking Connoisseur with BexTalksSex 7:30 pm
TES Presents: Bangin’ BJs – Tips and Tricks for the Cocksucking Connoisseur with BexTalksSex
Oct 30 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Join us as we take your blowjobs to the next level! From the most sensitive spots to hand and mouth techniques, we’ll cover the basics before going deeper to cover power dynamics, deep-throating, strap on[...]
Hungry Like the Wolf: Pet Play and Costumery 8:00 pm
Hungry Like the Wolf: Pet Play and Costumery @ Pleasure Chest
Oct 30 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Hungry Like the Wolf: Pet Play and Costumery @ Pleasure Chest
Hungry Like the Wolf: Pet Play and Costumery with Tina Horn This Halloween, get in touch with your primal urges with animal role play! For some, animal play might be about furry culture, elaborate costumes,[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Oct 30 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm @ DecadenceNYC
Oct 31 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Oct 31 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]