If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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For Rope Events Please Check out the NY Rope Collective Calendar 5:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 1 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Aug 2 @ 10:00 pm – Aug 3 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Aug 5 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
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Ready, Aim, Flog! with Sudisa 7:30 pm
Ready, Aim, Flog! with Sudisa
Aug 6 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Floggers are wonderful impact tools, from stingy to thuddy to sensual and all points in between. Let’s put a flogger in your hands so you and your bottom can have as much fun as possible.[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 6 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 7 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
DM/sw Group – Canes: For Pain, Fun & Punishment, with Ramon 7:30 pm
DM/sw Group – Canes: For Pain, Fun & Punishment, with Ramon
Aug 7 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Join Ramon for a celebration of the rich history of caning as a form of corporal punishment throughout the world. Learn about the materials, vendors, and resources for this simple, yet oh so versatile and[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 8 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Aug 8 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
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Bondage Group: Zero to Fun on Day One with BoundtoFly 7:30 pm
Bondage Group: Zero to Fun on Day One with BoundtoFly
Aug 13 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Want to explore rope, but confused by all the apparent complexity? Scared by the possible risks of this style of play? In this fast paced workshop, learn the basics of safe rope bondage. and go[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 13 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 14 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Aug 14 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
Off the Leash: Feral States/Play with Tower 7:30 pm
Off the Leash: Feral States/Play with Tower
Aug 14 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Some animals are made to be tamed…to be harnessed as beasts of burden or coddled as pets. Some can only be sated, and woe be to those who stand between these feral beasts and their[...]
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Board of Directors Meeting 7:00 pm
Board of Directors Meeting
Aug 15 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all current members with membership card or number. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us[...]
Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 15 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Aug 18 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
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TES Fest Redux! Two Decades Plus of the Black Male Submissive Experience with HouseSlave2000 7:30 pm
TES Fest Redux! Two Decades Plus of the Black Male Submissive Experience with HouseSlave2000
Aug 20 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
The trials and tribulations of anyone who travels in the field of the fetish world can be very daunting and enlightening. Based on one man’s experience, this is very challenging, yet, meaningful in terms of[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Aug 20 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 21 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
SWs Group: How to Give Good Phone with Robin Wildheart 7:30 pm
SWs Group: How to Give Good Phone with Robin Wildheart
Aug 21 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Robin Wildheart was hired in 1998 in a phone sex call center. She left for a few months in 2003 on maternity leave, and on returning was promoted to the training department. She stayed there[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 22 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Tribute! A Volunteer-Appreciation Extravaganza
Tribute! A Volunteer-Appreciation Extravaganza
Aug 24 – Aug 25 all-day
TES Fest is behind us, regular programming has started back up, and as always, we couldn’t do any of it without our incredible volunteers! So come join us at The Parth on Saturday, August 24th,[...]
Novices and Newcomers Munch: Raise a Glass Edition 7:30 pm
Novices and Newcomers Munch: Raise a Glass Edition
Aug 24 @ 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a[...]
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DW/sm Group – Wax Play: Artistic, Sadistic and Cheaptastic with Miss Simone B 7:30 pm
DW/sm Group – Wax Play: Artistic, Sadistic and Cheaptastic with Miss Simone B
Aug 27 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Originally scheduled for TES Fest, this class was cancelled due to presenter illness. Now, we are pleased to make this class available during our regular yearly programming! This Wax Play class is centered around safety,[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Aug 28 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Hypno Group: Hypnosis and S&M with Mr. Dream & PerfectMonster 7:30 pm
Hypno Group: Hypnosis and S&M with Mr. Dream & PerfectMonster
Aug 28 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Stay tuned for more info! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Aug 29 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Aug 30 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
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