If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Nov 4 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
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Election Night – No Class 7:30 pm
Election Night – No Class @ NY
Nov 5 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Civic engagement is sexy – whoever you vote for, please vote!
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Nov 6 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Mental Health & Kink with NJTherapist 7:30 pm
Mental Health & Kink with NJTherapist
Nov 6 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
This class focuses on aspects of mental health as it relates to the practice of BDSM. The goal is to be able to apply the information learned here as one negotiates scenes/relationships with other partners,[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Nov 7 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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The Leather Weather Party
The Leather Weather Party
Nov 9 – Nov 10 all-day
It’s officially autumn and that means it’s leather weather! So put on your favorite leather gear (or pleather for our vegan friends) and come out to play! Can’t decide what to wear? Leather and/or fetishwear[...]
Novices and Newcomers Munch: Fall Edition 7:30 pm
Novices and Newcomers Munch: Fall Edition
Nov 9 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a[...]
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Bondage Group: Heavy Metal, or Fun with Toys that Lock with Greg Cuffs 7:30 pm
Bondage Group: Heavy Metal, or Fun with Toys that Lock with Greg Cuffs
Nov 12 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Rope got you in a rut? Think a clove hitch is something you’ll find in your spice rack? Join GregCuffs for an intro to metal bondage gear and a hands-on tour of selections from his[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Nov 13 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Nov 13 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Nov 14 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Nov 14 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
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Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Nov 16 @ 10:00 pm – Nov 17 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Nov 17 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Nov 20 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Nov 21 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Nov 27 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Nov 28 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Nov 29 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
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