If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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For Rope Events Please Check out the NY Rope Collective Calendar 5:00 pm
Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Feb 1 @ 10:00 pm – Feb 2 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Feb 2 @ 10:00 am – Feb 3 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC 10:00 pm
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC @ Parthenon
Feb 2 @ 10:00 pm – Feb 3 @ 3:00 am
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Feb 4 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Feb 6 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Feb 6 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Feb 7 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Feb 8 @ 10:00 pm – Feb 9 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Feb 9 @ 10:00 am – Feb 10 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Poly Cocktails NY 7:00 pm
Poly Cocktails NY @ The Delancey – upstairs on roof deck
Feb 11 @ 7:00 pm – 11:30 pm
Who to bring/invite We attract a wide range of people who are in open relationships or identify as polyamorous. If you are curious about this lifestyle, or have questions about your current relationship, this is[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Feb 13 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Feb 13 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Feb 14 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Feb 14 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Feb 16 @ 10:00 am – Feb 17 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Feb 17 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Feb 17 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Feb 20 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Feb 21 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Feb 22 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
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Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss 10:00 am
Sophisticated Saturdays EVERY Saturday at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Feb 23 @ 10:00 am – Feb 24 @ 5:00 am
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Feb 27 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Feb 28 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]