If you are looking for an NYC Bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class you could find that here.
Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

Nov 17 @ 10:00 am – Nov 18 @ 5:00 am Bowery Bliss
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Nov 17 @ 8:00 pm – Nov 18 @ 2:00 am
It’s that time of year again. The time to gather with the people who matter most, and reflect on what we’re most thankful for. And no question about it, we’re most thankful for our volunteers![...]
Nov 18 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Nov 18 @ 4:00 pm – 8:00 pm
Come join us for an afternoon of all-female fun. This party is open to ALL female presenting/identifying women. This is a BDSM party, so come enjoy whatever kink excites you – impact, rope, domination, the[...]
Nov 18 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm The Eagle NYC
Nov 18 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm Pleasure Chest
Suck It, Lick It, Love It with Ryan & Bahar Sunday, November 18th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Our Sex Specialists share tips and tricks to get you in the spirit of giving[...]
Nov 19 @ 10:00 pm – Nov 20 @ 4:00 am The Eagle NYC
Nov 20 @ 6:00 pm – 7:00 pm DecadenceNYC
Join us once a month for an hour long workshop on any one of a number of fetish-related skills…rope bondage, spanking, the art of service, the proper use of a cane, and more. Workshop starts[...]
Nov 20 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm DecadenceNYC
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Nov 20 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
This class looks at the instruments of torture that lie within your kitchen cabinet. Fresh from exploring some legendary tropical spice gardens and markets, Rati is delighted to share with you the sadomasochistic pleasures of[...]
Nov 20 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm The Eagle NYC
Nov 21 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm DecadenceNYC
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Nov 21 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Nov 21 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm NY
See you next week!
Nov 22 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Nov 23 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Nov 23 @ 9:00 pm – Nov 24 @ 2:00 am DecadenceNYC
Cover: $60 for Couples and $100/$120 for single men before/after 11pm. Single women are complimentary. For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is[...]
Nov 23 @ 10:00 pm – Nov 24 @ 2:00 am Spread
Welcome to the world of Spread, Brooklyn’s brand spanking new Play Space. Spread is located 3 blocks from the Barclays Center and Atlantic Mall. We are near the LIRR and most train lines off the[...]
Nov 23 @ 10:00 pm – Nov 24 @ 4:00 am PENDULUM STUDIOS
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Nov 24 @ 10:00 am – Nov 25 @ 5:00 am Bowery Bliss
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Nov 25 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm The Eagle NYC
Nov 25 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm DecadenceNYC
Slutty Sundays – A night dedicated to women who love to play with men and the men who adore them. This night features couples, single women and respectful gentlemen who like to play in the[...]
Nov 26 @ 10:00 pm – Nov 27 @ 4:00 am The Eagle NYC
Nov 27 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm DecadenceNYC
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Nov 27 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Pre- Requisite- It would be helpful if you already knew how to tie a Karada but it will be reviewed at the beginning of class. TES’ Bondage group is pleased to welcome back Jakel for[...]
Nov 27 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm The Eagle NYC
Nov 28 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm DecadenceNYC
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Nov 28 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Nov 28 @ 7:30 pm – 11:00 pm
This class takes an up-close look at one of the most basic inductions and demonstration techniques to enhance efficacy. Attendees will discuss skills in establishing rapport, identifying opportunities in the pre and post-talks, and analyzing[...]