If you are looking for an NYC Bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class you could find that here.
Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

Oct 22 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 23 @ 4:00 am The Eagle NYC
Oct 23 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
Oct 23 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm DecadenceNYC
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Oct 23 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm The Eagle NYC
Oct 24 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm DecadenceNYC
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]
Oct 24 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Oct 24 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
A variety of new and established presenters give short presentations! An announcement of people that will be presenting is forthcoming! It’ll be great fun. Do you have an idea for a class you’ve been mulling[...]
Oct 24 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm Pleasure Chest
Blowjobs & Beyond with Carly Wednesday, October 24th 8PM-10PM | New York (Upper East Side) Want to have them squirming in their seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands,[...]
Oct 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Oct 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Oct 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
Oct 26 – Oct 28 all-day
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/674647 Website: http://www.ropecraft.net/ two days of classes including an extra-long deep dive session to start out each day along with a Ropenspace and more. The company is knotty, the city is weird, the pool[...]
Oct 26 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Oct 26 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
Oct 26 @ 9:00 pm – Oct 27 @ 2:00 am DecadenceNYC
Cover: $60 for Couples and $100/$120 for single men before/after 11pm. Single women are complimentary. For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is[...]
Oct 26 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 27 @ 4:00 am PENDULUM STUDIOS
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Oct 26 @ 11:00 pm – Oct 27 @ 3:00 am Spread, Brooklyn
For one night every other month SPREAD brings you “Sodom And Gomorrah”. A Custome play party where all things taboo, freaky, scary and hardcore are all partners under one roof for one night. We welcome[...]
Oct 27 @ 10:00 am – Oct 28 @ 5:00 am Bowery Bliss
Sexxxy … Dress to impress … Men MUST have a collared shirt and please NO sneakers… Sophisticated Saturdays THE #1 COUPLES SWINGER EVENT IN THE NORTHEAST…EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT…MEET COUPLES FROM AROUND THE WORLD!!! PLEASE NOTE…BOWERY[...]
Oct 28 @ 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm
 
Oct 28 @ 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm Spread
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/701583 Cost:$10pp Dress code:Comfortable to be tied Welcome to the NYC Chapter of Hitchin’ Bitches International. This is a space for women riggers/rope tops/dominants to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the[...]
Oct 28 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm The Eagle NYC
Oct 28 @ 7:00 pm – Oct 29 @ 1:00 am Paddles
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
Oct 28 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm DecadenceNYC
Slutty Sundays – A night dedicated to women who love to play with men and the men who adore them. This night features couples, single women and respectful gentlemen who like to play in the[...]
Oct 29 @ 5:30 pm – 8:30 pm
Link: https://fetlife.com/events/713776 Class size limited to 4 pairs Doors open 5:00pm for check in. Instruction from 5:30pm – 8:30pm (Instruction starts promptly. Please don’t be late) This is not your usual rope bondage class… Midori[...]
Oct 29 @ 10:00 pm – Oct 30 @ 4:00 am The Eagle NYC
Oct 30 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm DecadenceNYC
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Oct 30 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Join us as we take your blowjobs to the next level! From the most sensitive spots to hand and mouth techniques, we’ll cover the basics before going deeper to cover power dynamics, deep-throating, strap on[...]
Oct 30 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm Pleasure Chest
Hungry Like the Wolf: Pet Play and Costumery with Tina Horn This Halloween, get in touch with your primal urges with animal role play! For some, animal play might be about furry culture, elaborate costumes,[...]
Oct 30 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm The Eagle NYC
Oct 31 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm DecadenceNYC
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on[...]