If you are looking for an NYC Bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class you could find that here.
Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

Apr 18 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Apr 19 – Apr 21 all-day
Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/64981 Website: http://www.bondageexpodallas.com/Bondage Expo Dallas is a 3-day Bondage Conference featuring: Skilled & Experienced presenters from around the world. 3 days of workshops ranging from beginner to advanced, covering ground work & suspension, self-tying[...]
Apr 21 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Apr 23 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Our bylaws reform committee is hard at work bringing our bylaws into the 21st century. This event is to collect feedback and ideas from the kink community about what those changes should entail. This meeting[...]
Apr 23 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm The Eagle NYC
Apr 24 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Apr 24 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
In this class we will explore several ways Rope can play into Hypnosis scenes, including Kinesthetic Rope Induction, Hypnosis as a Rope Replacement, Hypnosis to enhance your Rope, and Rope as an ancillary participant in[...]
Apr 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Apr 26 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
Apr 30 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all current members with a membership card and number. Come hear what the TES Board of Directors has been doing for the past few months, and get a peek of what’s[...]
Apr 30 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm The Eagle NYC
May 1 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
May 1 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
May 1 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Stay tuned for more info about this class on erotic humiliation! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. TES Members $5 Students &[...]
May 2 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
May 3 @ 10:00 pm – May 4 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
May 4 @ 10:00 pm – May 5 @ 3:00 am Parthenon
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
May 6 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm The Delancey
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
May 8 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
May 8 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
May 9 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
May 9 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
May 10 @ 8:30 am – 6:00 pm The Jerry Orbach Theater
Organized and produced by Michael Aaron, PhD, LCSW, CST and Dulcinea Pitagora, LCSW, CST to provide a local arena for clinical and educational discourse around alternative sexual practices. The phrase “alternative sexuality” is purposefully broad,[...]
May 10 @ 10:00 pm – May 11 @ 3:00 am House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
May 15 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
May 16 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
May 19 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]