If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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For Rope Events Please Check out the NY Rope Collective Calendar 5:00 pm
Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Apr 1 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
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POSTPONED!!! TES Novice & Newcomers Group: Flogging with Virgil 7:30 pm
POSTPONED!!! TES Novice & Newcomers Group: Flogging with Virgil
Apr 2 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
THIS CLASS HAS BEEN POSTPONED DUE TO SPACE CONSIDERATIONS. PLEASE LOOK FOR IT TO BE RESCHEDULED IN THE COMING MONTHS!   This class will teach basic throws and safety for beginners, how to select a[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Apr 2 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Apr 3 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Apr 3 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
TES’s 4th Annual Sex Workers Panel 7:30 pm
TES’s 4th Annual Sex Workers Panel
Apr 3 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Though not always easily visible, sex workers have always been an important part of the BDSM scene – and the LGBTQ scene, the poly scene, and just about every other alternative sexuality community. Unfortunately, they[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Apr 4 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Apr 5 @ 10:00 pm – Apr 6 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
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MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC 10:00 pm
MISTER–E’S*REVIVAL NYC @ Parthenon
Apr 6 @ 10:00 pm – Apr 7 @ 3:00 am
Dress code: Fetish wear, all black, lingerie, birthday suit. REVIVAL noun; restoration to life, consciousness, vigor, strength… This name is perfect because of the new construction at the Parthenon, and personal growth within myself in[...]
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Rope Group: Body Manipulation for Rope with KeepOnKeepinOn and DegradationofLV 7:30 pm
Rope Group: Body Manipulation for Rope with KeepOnKeepinOn and DegradationofLV
Apr 9 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Ever want to feel like you struggle to move your partner when tying? Do you want to maneuver them effortlessly? In this class we take a look at various technical components that make moving you[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Apr 9 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Apr 10 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Apr 10 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
TES DW/sm Group: Ballbusting with ComtesseAurora & KilimanjaroDan 7:30 pm
TES DW/sm Group: Ballbusting with ComtesseAurora & KilimanjaroDan
Apr 10 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
One of the most iconic DW/sm activities is ballbusting. From the classic image of a latex-clad domina pressing her stiletto heel into her submissive’s groin to the sharp sting of a finger-flick against the scrotum[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Apr 11 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Apr 11 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
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Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Apr 12 @ 10:00 pm – Apr 13 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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TES Novices and Newcomers Munch: A Kinkster Always Pays His Tab Edition – Hosted by Stoopzkitty, Diabloknk, and Aria 7:30 pm
TES Novices and Newcomers Munch: A Kinkster Always Pays His Tab Edition – Hosted by Stoopzkitty, Diabloknk, and Aria
Apr 13 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a[...]
TES Presents: Bend the Knee – A Play Party of Fire and Ice 8:00 pm
TES Presents: Bend the Knee – A Play Party of Fire and Ice
Apr 13 @ 8:00 pm – Apr 14 @ 2:00 am
Unbowed? Unbent? Unbroken? Want to be? On the eve of the final season of Game of Thrones, the night is long and full of… kinky good times. So be ye bear or maiden fair, join[...]
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Intro to Needleplay 7:30 pm
Intro to Needleplay
Apr 16 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Ever been curious about needles? Have you watched in rapt horror or total fascination and wondered, “Why do people do this as a kink? What does the Top get from it and what is the[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Apr 16 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Apr 17 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Genitorture for Vulvas: Making the Lips Scream 7:30 pm
Genitorture for Vulvas: Making the Lips Scream
Apr 17 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Do you love pussy so much that you just want to hurt it sometimes? Well come learn how to torture your partner’s sensitive area in multiple ways without ruining them for next time and while[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Apr 18 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Bondage Expo Dallas
Bondage Expo Dallas
Apr 19 – Apr 21 all-day
Link: https://fetlife.com/groups/64981 Website: http://www.bondageexpodallas.com/Bondage Expo Dallas is a 3-day Bondage Conference featuring: Skilled & Experienced presenters from around the world. 3 days of workshops ranging from beginner to advanced, covering ground work & suspension, self-tying[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Apr 21 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
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Bylaws Townhall: Help Us Rewrite Our Bylaws with Inclusivity Front and Center! 7:30 pm
Bylaws Townhall: Help Us Rewrite Our Bylaws with Inclusivity Front and Center!
Apr 23 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Our bylaws reform committee is hard at work bringing our bylaws into the 21st century. This event is to collect feedback and ideas from the kink community about what those changes should entail. This meeting[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Apr 23 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Apr 24 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Hypnokink Group: Ropenosis – The cross roads of Hypnosis and Rope 7:30 pm
Hypnokink Group: Ropenosis – The cross roads of Hypnosis and Rope
Apr 24 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
In this class we will explore several ways Rope can play into Hypnosis scenes, including Kinesthetic Rope Induction, Hypnosis as a Rope Replacement, Hypnosis to enhance your Rope, and Rope as an ancillary participant in[...]
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Harlem Rope Share 7:00 pm
Harlem Rope Share @ West Harlem near 116th on 2/3 line
Apr 25 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:Suggested donation of $5Dress code:Come as you areDescription:Tired of going to Brooklyn to get your rope on?Join the uptown rope crowd, tying and learning in the tradition of the rope bites, every Thursday 7pm-10pm. We do a[...]
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Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Apr 26 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
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Spring Membership Meeting 7:00 pm
Spring Membership Meeting
Apr 30 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all current members with a membership card and number. Come hear what the TES Board of Directors has been doing for the past few months, and get a peek of what’s[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Apr 30 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States