If you are looking for an NYC bondage club, a sex party, maybe a beginners rope bondage class or a swinger’s club in New York, you could find that here

Please verify dates and especially event times with events hosts. There are some calendars which import with glitches due to time zones. Also, promoters and event organizers often have a LOT on their plates, and when their plans go badly for whatever reason notifying us isn’t always the first thing on their mind.
We do our best to reduce or eliminate these discrepancies and it is in your best interest to be sure that you have the time right.

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CURVY FLING’s Monthly Saturday night Event @ Pendulum…Where NYC’s HOTTEST BBWs and their admirers go to PLAY! 10:00 pm
CURVY FLING’s Monthly Saturday night Event @ Pendulum…Where NYC’s HOTTEST BBWs and their admirers go to PLAY! @ Pendulum
Jun 30 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 1 @ 4:00 am
THE Saturday Curvy Fling! The HOTTEST Monthly BBW Event! Saturday Curvy Fling at Pendulum…The place where the HOTTEST BBW Swingers go to play Hosted by Curvy Encounters’ Becca (CurvyBeccaNYC here on FetLife) the hostess with[...]
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Jul 2 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 3 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 3 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 4 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
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Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 5 @ 9:00 pm – Jul 6 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Jul 6 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 7 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Jul 6 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 7 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Jul 9 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 10 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 10 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 11 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
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Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 12 @ 9:00 pm – Jul 13 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Jul 13 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 14 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Jul 13 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 14 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
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《PANGEA NYC》”BK” @HACiENDA ViLLA 9:00 pm
《PANGEA NYC》”BK” @HACiENDA ViLLA @ HACIENDA VILLA
Jul 14 @ 9:00 pm – Jul 15 @ 4:00 am
PLAY SPACE RULES FOR PANGEA BK ● ADDRESS EMAILED WHEN YOU RSVP – 2 levels enough space for 150+ attending be polite/respectful in addressing another’s pronoun/identity an added “good weather” open air skylounge deck OPEN[...]
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Jul 16 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 17 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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NSFW Bacchus: Carpe Noctum 7:41 pm
NSFW Bacchus: Carpe Noctum @ House of Yes
Jul 17 @ 7:41 pm – 8:41 pm
NSFW Bacchus: Carpe Noctum @ House of Yes
DESCRIPTION Amor Vincit Omnia. Join us as we return to House of Yes for a one-night celebration in honor of the ultimate god of a good time-the NSFW Bacchus. Inspired by the wild, debaucherous and[...]
AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 17 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 18 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
Foreplay 8:01 pm
Foreplay @ House of Yes
Jul 17 @ 8:01 pm – 9:01 pm
Foreplay @ House of Yes
DESCRIPTION Foreplay is the genesis of an erotic encounter. A single look, one word exchanged, catching a whiff of a scent, the feeling of their breath on your lips before the kiss. Foreplay is how[...]
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Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 19 @ 9:00 pm – Jul 20 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Jul 20 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 21 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Jul 23 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 24 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 24 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 25 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
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Incubus NYC 7:00 pm
Incubus NYC @ Paddles
Jul 25 @ 7:00 pm – Jul 26 @ 1:00 am
Descend the stairs of madness to our underground lair and explore our unique blend of kink. While we love when you dress up, its not mandatory. Join us and express yourself in a non-judgmental environment.[...]
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Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 26 @ 9:00 pm – Jul 27 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
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3rd, 4th & 5th Friday “Open Parties” 10:00 pm
3rd, 4th & 5th Friday “Open Parties” @ Spread
Jul 27 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 28 @ 2:00 am
Welcome to the world of Spread, Brooklyn’s brand spanking new Play Space. Spread is located 3 blocks from the Barclays Center and Atlantic Mall. We are near the LIRR and most train lines off the[...]
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum 10:00 pm
Cirque d’érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Jul 27 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 28 @ 4:00 am
Cirque d'érotique at Pendulum @ PENDULUM STUDIOS | New York | New York | United States
  We welcome those who want more from the regular fetish play space. We are open to all of our NYC friends and those visiting our wonderful hometown every Friday night from 10 PM to 4 AM. Whether[...]
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Countdown: a pansexual play party 10:00 pm
Countdown: a pansexual play party @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Jul 28 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 29 @ 3:00 am
Countdown: a pansexual play party @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Countdown: a pansexual play party Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife 10pm-late (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested) Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK – use form below for address To buy tickets:[...]
House of Love: Sacred Sin 10:00 pm
House of Love: Sacred Sin @ House of Yes
Jul 28 @ 10:00 pm – Jul 29 @ 4:00 am
House of Love: Sacred Sin @ House of Yes
DESCRIPTION A night of sin and skin and sacred play in the temple of pleasure. Indulge in disobedience, shed your shame and honor your sacred seductive self in the divine light of love. Engage in[...]
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Leather and Lace 8:00 pm
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum
Jul 30 @ 8:00 pm – Jul 31 @ 3:00 am
Leather and Lace @ Pendulum | New York | New York | United States
Leather and Lace Couples, Single Women, & Single Men Beginning at Monday, January 22, 2018 08:00pm Ending at Tuesday, January 23, 2018 02:00am Monday night event catering to couples & singles INTRODUCING LEATHER AND LACE! HOSTED[...]
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AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Jul 31 @ 8:00 pm – Aug 1 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]