Riggers Paradise

Link: https://fetlife.com/events/687770
Cost:$20 for everyone (Donation)
Dress code:Come as you are (Jesus Said so)

“Tie me up. Then you have my permission to spank me”.


Play to South African House tunes, Heavy Metal, and today’s most poppin pop. This event is open to all who want to have amazing rope scenes as well as join our floor group circle to learn basics during the event.

Riggers Paradise has an unlimited number of hard points and can support multiple scenes at once. No more fighting over the same couple of hard points at a party.

Although all types of play is allowed at this event, This is primarily for all Riggers and Rope Players as well as rope bottoms/bunnies/ sluts and those who enjoy watching.

CONSENT is a big fucking deal to Venus Cuffs. Violation of anyones consent is grounds for removal and being temporarily or permanently BANNED from the studio. I promise. Don’t fuck it up for yourself.

This studio welcomes ALL races, religions, gender identity, or sexual orientations. Come one come all. Ask for pronouns and never assume.

Refreshments will be served for the safety of everyone’s body for this event.

I am looking forward to meeting you and building a Kinky Rope Community in Brooklyn.

Thursday Night Group Play Party

Thursday Night Group Play Party:
This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2, 3, 4 and more.
This night is for those who like to interact in the playroom, as well as those who enjoy watching and being watched.
As always, we respect everyone’s limits, so players of all kinds, at all levels, are welcome – whether you are new and want to watch the action or you have been here a few times and are ready to jump right in!
Visit our home page at http://www.decadencenyc.com or see our complete calendar

DDD Wednesday Play Group 4:00pm

The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and tend to focus a bit more on one-to-one play.
These daytime events allow participants to enjoy play at their own pace – a quick work break or a leisurely afternoon/early evening. But everyone who attends these sessions leaves both satisfied and wanting to return.
Visit our home page at http://www.decadencenyc.com or see our complete calendar


CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a room full of attractive women, dressed for a night on the town, telling you what you can and cannot do.
The hours on this day are amended to accommodate the workshop that immediately precedes it.


Sense Play – Interactive Intro to Erotic Sense Play! Tue 7:30-9:30pm

Pagans Paradise and Daddy Retreat present a Delightful Dungeon Club event that is open to all genders, orientations, and lifestyles.

NOTE: Depending on how you identify we will try to pair you accordingly, however, we encourage everyone to have an open mind in that this is a fun experience that you can learn, all consent based and done in a safe, sane and consensual space that welcomes all to explore and try new things. If you only want to be paired with a certain gender or orientation and are not sure, bring someone with you and you can stay paired up, part of the fun, in this case, would be voyeurism with various types of play.

Led by Dominus Eros and Lola Jean, Double Dom/me!

BDSM can include many layers and levels of play, one of them being the sensual side of touch and sensation. Sense Play uses techniques and methods that play on both the physical and mental aspect of the sub. For Sense play we utilize many different tools/toys that vary in texture, feel temperature and density.

Lola will take you through how you can dominate using sensuality and touch to Dom/me your sub.
Master A will introduce the various tools to create sensual layers of tactile response.

Combined you will find a play session that is both erotic and stimulating, while not being overly aggressive and avoiding impact play. Great class for all newcomers and those that know. We will provide all tools/toys, but feel free to bring your own.

Cost Single Early Bird $39, $45 after

Cost Couple Early Bird $70, $80 after

Nude inspired class, however, you can dress in gear/sexy clothing if you want. You will learn how to use all items shown in a safe way.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel, and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom or walk in the waiting area. If you have tools/toys feel free to bring that as well.

We will provide tools/toys to play with and also sell some items so bring cash if you may want to purchase them.

What to expect at the workshop:

Nude inspired class, however, you can dress in gear/sexy clothing if you want. You will learn how to use all items shown in a safe way. Free play after 9:30pm

What to bring?

You can bring a towel If you have a tools/toys feel free to bring that as well.

RSVP soon has limited spots, please reserve as soon as you can.



NOTE: This event is for couples only (or triads/quads etc..), no singles.  open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

Learn how to give a luxurious sensuous massage using both touch and hot oil. Great class for those new to massage and for those wanting to learn a new trick or two. Sensuous Flow is about connecting the body in long strokes and how to tap into the bodies sensory patterns with light touch to leave your partner floating on air. You will be shown how to edge your partner as well as work all the erogenous zones. A must for those wanting to improve their touch with an easy and fun experience touching your partner in sensual and erotic ways.

ELITE PACKAGE. Arrive 45 minutes before class for a Sensation Play bonus. Stimulate all of the senses before you indulge in your 2.5 hour erotic massage. Delight and tickle the senses with a selection of tastes, sounds, smells, and scents while you explore each others bodies. This package also includes a bottle of massage oil (retail $15)  to take home with you to practice everything you learned on your own time.  Highly recommended for first timers, or anyone who want’s more easing into the class.

$15 bottle of massage oil will be also offered at class for you to take home.

Led by Aaron and Lola Jean

What to expect at the workshop:

You will be with your partner the whole class. Class is nude inspired while receiving massage, but givers can be in underwear if you so choose, we do encourage a body positive environment so full nudity the entire time is welcomed if you are comfortable.

What to bring?

You can bring a towel, and shorts that you can wear when you need to use the restroom or walk in the waiting area.

NOTE :: If you are a triad please contact for a single ticket code.


Led By Dominus Eros and Bella Minx

Tantra is an eastern practice of creating a sexual balance within the body and there are many ways to facilitate that healing. This event will focus on Yoni (pussy) and Lingham (dick) massage in order to create and move sexual energy. The massage is a beautifully relaxing and sensual experience making a focus of touch and care that is totally about the receiver. Breath techniques are used to create a heightened state for orgasmic flow to remain high without release for longer periods of time before allowing oneself to reach climax, however one can hold this energy without climax as well.

You will learn how to edge yourself and someone else, find internal release singular/multiple, create tantric body waves, connect with your breath as well as internal energy and last longer.

Identifying as Pansexual (Dominus Eros) and Bisexual (Bella Minx) they will bring a unique perspective being skilled givers and receivers while able to translate body empathy.

NOTE: This event is great for couples, but singles are welcome just know that there is no guarantee that you will be paired up with someone but in that case you will learn how to self edge and give this type of massage to others. open to all genders, orientations and lifestyles.

Cost – $45 Early bird,$55 after, for couples $80 Early bird $95 after. Cash/venmo at time of class also works but spot not reserved.

What to expect at the workshop:

Class is nude inspired while receiving massage, but givers can be in underwear if you so choose, we do encourage a body positive environment so full nudity the entire time is welcomed if you are comfortable, but if you want some clothing on see below for suggestions.



Foreplay is the genesis of an erotic encounter. A single look, one word exchanged, catching a whiff of a scent, the feeling of their breath on your lips before the kiss. Foreplay is how we begin to connect and trust before our bodies entwine and penetrate.

Foreplay is good for you.

Foreplay – the show – is exactly an hour and a half of emotionally and physically intimate acts between you (our Guests) and us (the House). Lines between those who watch and those who are watched will be blurred, roles often reversed, boundaries at times pressed against.

*** Costumes are MANDATORY for this events. NO JEANS, NO TEESHIRTS. You will not be allowed to enter without a creative outfit. Please see here for costume inspiration:https://pin.it/5s54jeehskdqru ***

*** Filming & Photorgaphy are prohibited at this event. We will have a professional photographer covering the event. Please keep your phones away for the duration of the event. ***

We prefer you standing up for this one. Acts will not be contained to the stage. We will entertain in the round, from the inside out.

Produced by Anya Sapozhnikova

You will move. You will explore. You will be fed.

Doors at 7pm | Show at 8pm


21+ | No Re-Entry

*Please let your server know if you have any food allergies*

::::::: Consent Policy :::::::
Behave with beauty, connect with intention. We are obsessed with Consent. Always ASK before touching anyone in our House. Always ASK before photographing your fellow patrons. Photos of our performers are welcome and encouraged.

If someone is violating your boundaries or harassing you, please report them to a security guard or any staff member. We have a zero tolerance policy for harassment. If you feel something, say something, and we will help. Questions, comments, concerns? Let us know: consent@houseofyes.org.

::::::: Community and Accessibility :::::::
This is a space for everyone to feel welcome and loved. Racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, homophobia, transphobia, or any other form of discrimination will not be tolerated at our House. All entrances and spaces within the venue are single-level. There are stairs leading to the upper portions of the stage, for those who wish to dance in the spotlight. Strobe lights are used during performances and parties. ALL bathrooms in our venue are gender neutral.

House of Love: Sacred Sin


A night of sin and skin and sacred play in the temple of pleasure. Indulge in disobedience, shed your shame and honor your sacred seductive self in the divine light of love.

Engage in prayer of the flesh filled with power and pleasure, feel the strongest passions with your partners or new friends of the night. We will show you the way. Arrive with your heart, body, and soul… and a loved one to share it all with.

Dance, sweat, breathe and feel how hard we love you.

: : : DRESS CODE : : :
Dressing to theme is required for entry: Lace, leather, latex, lingerie. Styles of sin. Submissive and Sincere. Hedonistic and Haute.

See more inspiration here: https://pin.it/hdp727hjbuj5lu


: : : FEATURING : : :

Aphrodisiac Edibles • Sacred Performances of Pleasure • Champagne & Candle Wax • Punishment & Pleasure • Sensual Sacrifice • Bondage and Blindfolds • Hot Tubs and Hotter Moments • Altars of Sin, Seduction and Sensual bliss • Deep Tissue Massages • Feathers & Feelings • Sounds of Love & Lust • Aftercare

: : : MUSIC : : :

Introducing sacred sounds from across the pond – courtesey of H&G Creations from Ireland! Featuring Prymary Colours, Jus DamienReveller, and Dave Kerr.


Go outside your norms. Try something new. Embrace the full spectrum of gender and sexual possibilities. Bring a friend to play with that supports your personal exploration. This evening is designed to give you a safer space to play, flirt, and connect in any way you choose.

Get explicit consent. ALWAYS ask before touching someone, and don’t assume consent for one activity automatically means consent for all others.

State your boundaries. If someone makes you uncomfortable, for ANY reason, let them know. That includes touching without asking, saying something that offends you, or even just looking at you in a way you don’t like. Be nice, be graceful, but be firm.

: : : CODE OF CONDUCT : : :

➕ COSTUMES ARE REQUIRED. Jeans, teeshirts, and casual clothing are strictly prohibited. If you arrive in casual clothing, you will be denied entry without a refund.


➕ LAST ENTRY AT 2AM. The door closes at 2am. Come early and come with intention.

➕ CONSENT IS REQUIRED FOR ALL TOUCH. Use your words, not your hands, to communicate. Get affirmative consent if you want to interact physically with someone.

➕ If someone is violating your consent or harassing you, tell a security guard or staff member.

➕ Use coat check to store your belongings. We are not responsible for lost or stolen items.

21+ | No re-entry

***If you have a love project and you’d like to play, produce and participate, please email kae@houseofyes.org with the subject line HOUSE OF LOVE***

This party is Rated R… not X. If you know what we mean.

Open Love NY’s Poly Chai

Polyamorous? Exploring an open relationship? Interested in hanging out with like-minded people and making new friends? Come to Open Love NY’s Poly Chai: a sober mixer held at Bluestockings Bookstore, Café, & Activist Center. Bring your friends, partners, or other loved ones, and say hi!

After July’s event, Poly Chai is going on hiatus for several months, so don’t miss your last chance for a while!

Saturday, July 21 – 7:00 to 9:30 pm
Bluestockings Bookstore, Café & Activist Center
172 Allen Street
New York, NY 10002

Admission: $10 suggested donation, but no one will be turned away for not donating.

Beverages and snacks will be available for sale, but feel free to bring other snacks to share. This is a sober event, so no alcohol is allowed. Anyone who appears to be intoxicated will be asked to leave the event.

Open Love NY volunteers will be around to welcome you and ensure that our rules and Bluestockings Safer Space is maintained. Please read the rules and guidelines at the links below.

Open Love NY’s General Rules of Conduct and Event House Rules: http://openloveny.com/about/

Bluestockings Safer Space Policy: http://bluestockings.com/about/safer-space/