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Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Nov 30 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 1 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
Spread Presents “Riggers Paradise” 9:00 pm
Spread Presents “Riggers Paradise” @ Spread
Dec 1 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 2 @ 2:00 am
Welcome to the world of Spread, Brooklyn’s brand spanking new Play Space. Spread is located 3 blocks from the Barclays Center and Atlantic Mall. We are near the LIRR and most train lines off the[...]
Bedlam 10:00 pm
Bedlam
Dec 1 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 2 @ 3:00 am
BEDLAM is an event that goes back to our roots – a straightforward Fetish Party without the trappings of themes or distractions, where play takes priority. The name comes from our founder’s memory of fetish[...]
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss 10:00 pm
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 1 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 2 @ 4:00 am
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
TGIF at Bowery Bliss The hottest mix of music in NYC at Manhattan’s largest on-premise swinger club. The perfect place for newbie swinger couples and veteran swingers. Bowery Bliss is THE place in Manhattan where Swinger[...]
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TES Presents: Your First Flight – Beginning Suspension, with Belle 10:00 am
TES Presents: Your First Flight – Beginning Suspension, with Belle
Dec 2 @ 10:00 am – 6:00 pm
LOCATION, COST, & REGISTRATION INFO TBD Students will gain the skills and tools necessary to safely do basic rope suspensions. This course will focus on both topping and bottoming skills allowing the participants to grow[...]
TES Presents: Your First Flight – Beginning Suspension, with Belle 10:00 am
TES Presents: Your First Flight – Beginning Suspension, with Belle
Dec 2 @ 10:00 am – 6:00 pm
Cost:TBA, but as always, TES members are eligible for the best price Dress code:Comfortable enough to tie in Description: Students will gain the skills and tools necessary to safely do basic rope suspensions. This course[...]
Paddles OTK Munch 5:00 pm
Paddles OTK Munch @ The Chelsea Square Restaurant
Dec 2 @ 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm
We are a friendly bunch of spanking fans who gather on the first Saturday of every month for a bit of dinner before the OTK Night at Paddles. All are welcome, even if you aren’t[...]
Fetish Tribe IMPACT 10:00 pm
Fetish Tribe IMPACT @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
Dec 2 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 3 @ 4:00 am
Fetish Tribe IMPACT @ PENDULUM STUDIOS
For IMPACT we have an amazing newly built private space in lower Manhattan with tons of new equipment, six rigging stations, and plenty of room to play, so you don’t have to worry about hitting[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 3 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Dec 3 @ 7:00 pm – Dec 4 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Pleasure Salon 6:00 pm
Pleasure Salon @ The Delancey
Dec 4 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
We hope to see you at The Delancey. We’re there the first Monday of every month. This event is free. 21+, please. Happy Hour until 8pm; $2 off all drinks! Pleasure Salon gatherings bring together[...]
TES Writers Group 7:00 pm
TES Writers Group
Dec 4 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Come join the TES Writers Group to share work and discuss creative writing for kink!
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State of Submission Panel Discussion, moderated by Jaden 7:30 pm
State of Submission Panel Discussion, moderated by Jaden
Dec 5 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
TES Members $5 Students, Senior Citizens, & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm What does it mean to be[...]
AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 5 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 6 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 5 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 6 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Curious Fox Social 7:00 pm
Curious Fox Social @ Private residence, Bushwick Brooklyn
Dec 6 @ 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Relationships lend themselves to personalized design, construction, and tailoring, in the same way we customize our computers, living spaces, and hair color. But what exactly does this look like in real life?  Come find out[...]
Tie & Draw (Live Drawing Session): Holiday Edition, with Master Fine Arse 7:30 pm
Tie & Draw (Live Drawing Session): Holiday Edition, with Master Fine Arse
Dec 6 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
TES Members $5 Students, Senior Citizens, & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm What better time to draw a[...]
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event 9:00 pm
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 6 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 7 @ 3:00 am
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Wicked Wednesdays at Bowery Bliss EVERY Wednesday Night at Bowery Bliss 158 Bowery NY NY 10012 Lobby on 2nd floor 21 and over PLEASE/Newbies and Veterans welcome! FROM 9 PM TILL 3 AM ALL 21 AND[...]
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NYC Rope Bite 8:00 pm
NYC Rope Bite
Dec 7 @ 8:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:$10 Dress code:Whatever’s comfortable Description: New York City Allies In Rope (NYCAIR) in association with Rope Bite International presents the bondage meet up you’ve heard so much about. This is a potluck. Please bring something[...]
Sensation Play: Sensual Dom’ing and Sense Play 8:00 pm
Sensation Play: Sensual Dom’ing and Sense Play @ 3F Studios
Dec 7 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Sense Play – Interactive Intro to Erotic Sense Play! Thu 8-10:30 pm Pagans Paradise & Daddy Retreat presents a Delightful Dungeon Club event that is open to all genders, orientations, and lifestyles. NOTE: Depending on[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 7 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 8 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 9:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party @ DecadenceNYC
Dec 7 @ 9:00 pm – 11:59 pm
DecadenceNYC A full-floor loft space in Chelsea, right near Penn Station. Exact address to those with confirmed reservations. Our most popular party of the week! Play in groups of 3’s…or 4’s or 5’s or… or[...]
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Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) 10:00 pm
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Dec 8 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 9 @ 3:00 am
Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party) @ House of Scorpio
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct Bring your best lips (yours and your PAL’s), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing[...]
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss 10:00 pm
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 8 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 9 @ 4:00 am
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
TGIF at Bowery Bliss The hottest mix of music in NYC at Manhattan’s largest on-premise swinger club. The perfect place for newbie swinger couples and veteran swingers. Bowery Bliss is THE place in Manhattan where Swinger[...]
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NYC Whips ❤ Central Park ❤ October 14th 2:00 pm
NYC Whips ❤ Central Park ❤ October 14th @ Central Park
Dec 9 @ 2:00 pm – 6:00 pm
NYC Whips is… a good time with likeminded, whip-loving folks. a place to learn What are we doing? This is an informal practice session. We’re practicing form and technique. We’re learning new cracks. We’re playing[...]
THE RETURN OF ***NO INHIBITIONS*** 10:00 pm
THE RETURN OF ***NO INHIBITIONS***
Dec 9 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 10 @ 3:30 am
WELCOME TO NO INHIBITIONS: A FETISH UTOPIA! A CLEAN, SAFE SPACE WHERE YOU CAN PARTY AND PLAY ALL NIGHT AMONGST THE BEST LIKE MINDED FETISHISTS, AND KINKSTERS IN THE TRI-STATE AREA AND BEYOND. ALL ARE[...]
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NYC Hitchin Bitches 2:30 pm
NYC Hitchin Bitches @ Spread
Dec 10 @ 2:30 pm – 5:30 pm
This is a space for women riggers/rope tops/dominants to learn, share and experience rope first hand, based upon the Peer to Peer and unconference learning and sharing concepts. We welcome all women and FtM, MtF,[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 10 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Dec 10 @ 7:00 pm – Dec 11 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Poly Cocktails NY 7:00 pm
Poly Cocktails NY @ The Delancey – upstairs on roof deck
Dec 11 @ 7:00 pm – 11:30 pm
Who to bring/invite We attract a wide range of people who are in open relationships or identify as polyamorous. If you are curious about this lifestyle, or have questions about your current relationship, this is[...]
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HANUKKAH – TES CLOSED 8:00 am
HANUKKAH – TES CLOSED
Dec 12 @ 8:00 am – 5:00 pm
Happy holiday!
Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] 1:00 pm
Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] @ Le Pain Quotidien
Dec 12 @ 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
OneTaste New York Tuesday, December 12 at 1:00 PM Curious about Orgasmic Meditation (OM)? Want to find out what the OM practice and the Orgasm-based lifestyle is all about in a fun, informal setting w…[...]
AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 12 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 13 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
FemDom: A Lesson In Worship & Servitude for the Submissive 8:00 pm
FemDom: A Lesson In Worship & Servitude for the Submissive @ 3F Studios
Dec 12 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
New to Female Domination and not sure where to start? Are you exploring what area of FemDom appeals to you? Like the idea of serving a few mistresses in training? In this class we will[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 12 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 13 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Harlem Munch 7:00 pm
Harlem Munch @ Harlem Tavern
Dec 13 @ 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Please Join Us at the Harlem Munch, make some new connections and rediscover some old friends. PLEASE heck fetlife website page, to confirm meetnigs! You know we are kinky. What more do you want? Who[...]
P.S.A.L.M. (Park Slope Alternative Lifestyles Munch) 7:00 pm
P.S.A.L.M. (Park Slope Alternative Lifestyles Munch) @ The Douglas
Dec 13 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Are you seeking a non-judgemental place where ALL walks of life, including your own, are accepted? Looking for a no pressure event where you can meet new people without (mainstream or kink) assumptions? Looking to[...]
Rope Bite Brooklyn 7:00 pm
Rope Bite Brooklyn @ Hacienda Studio
Dec 13 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rope Bite Brooklyn is a monthly rope bondage skillshare and practice space Beginners Experts Someone who is curious about being tied up Someone who loves to be tied Bring some rope (or some snacks), socialize,[...]
Christmas Themed EROTIC Male Figure Model Drawing / Painting 7:30 pm
Christmas Themed EROTIC Male Figure Model Drawing / Painting @ Studio next to NY Penn Station
Dec 13 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Christmas Themed EROTIC Male Figure Model Drawing / Painting @ Studio next to NY Penn Station
Males and females of all sexual orientations are encouraged to attend!!! Location is in a studio close to penn station and exact location will be emailed after ticket is purchased. MUST BE 18 years of[...]
Novice & Newcomers Group 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Group
Dec 13 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Event description to follow. Location: TRS, Inc. 27 Williams Street (3rd Floor), New York, NY, United States Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Please note new program fees: TES Members[...]
TES Novice & Newcomers Group: Negotiation for a Scene, with Akabi 7:30 pm
TES Novice & Newcomers Group: Negotiation for a Scene, with Akabi
Dec 13 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
So you and someone(s) else want to scene? Now what? If you’ve ever been at a loss for how to negotiate, this workshop is for you. We will explore how to negotiate ethically and effectively.[...]
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event 9:00 pm
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 13 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 14 @ 3:00 am
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Wicked Wednesdays at Bowery Bliss EVERY Wednesday Night at Bowery Bliss 158 Bowery NY NY 10012 Lobby on 2nd floor 21 and over PLEASE/Newbies and Veterans welcome! FROM 9 PM TILL 3 AM ALL 21 AND[...]
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Orgasm, tea, and connection: An afternoon for women 1:00 pm
Orgasm, tea, and connection: An afternoon for women @ Maman Tribeca
Dec 14 @ 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, December 14 at 1:00 PM Join me for fun stories, sharing, and answering questions about the practice of Orgasmic Meditation! What is it? What are the benefits? Why do it at[...]
TES Board of Directors Meeting 7:00 pm
TES Board of Directors Meeting
Dec 14 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Free and open to all members with a current ID card. Come hear what the board is working on, offer feedback/suggestions, or volunteer to help out!
Open Board Meeting 7:30 pm
Open Board Meeting
Dec 14 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
Open to all members! Please come and contribute.
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party
Dec 14 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 15 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
✨TurnON NYC with Marissa & Christina✨ 8:00 pm
✨TurnON NYC with Marissa & Christina✨ @ OneTaste
Dec 14 @ 8:00 pm – 9:30 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, December 14 at 8:00 PM Join us for an evening of fun and TurnOn! How often do we get an opportunity to be REAL with each other in New York? We[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 14 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 15 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 9:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party @ DecadenceNYC
Dec 14 @ 9:00 pm – 11:59 pm
DecadenceNYC A full-floor loft space in Chelsea, right near Penn Station. Exact address to those with confirmed reservations. Our most popular party of the week! Play in groups of 3’s…or 4’s or 5’s or… or[...]
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Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] 1:00 pm
Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] @ Le Pain Quotidien
Dec 15 @ 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
OneTaste New York Friday, December 15 at 1:00 PM Curious about Orgasmic Meditation (OM)? Want to find out what the OM practice and the Orgasm-based lifestyle is all about in a fun, informal setting w…[...]
DDD PlayGroup 3:00pm 3:00 pm
DDD PlayGroup 3:00pm
Dec 15 @ 3:00 pm – 5:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Spanking Party 6:00 pm
Spanking Party
Dec 15 @ 6:00 pm – 10:00 pm
The Spanking Party is exactly as it sounds – a night dedicated to those who enjoy spanking and being spanked. Whether bare-handed or implement in hand, spanking brings with it a certain kind of exhilaration, for both the[...]
Beat and Bang 10:00 pm
Beat and Bang
Dec 15 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 16 @ 2:00 am
For all our friends who enjoy any sort of BDSM play and the sex that goes with it, this is the party for you. This event is an excellent place for all types – those with[...]
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss 10:00 pm
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 15 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 16 @ 4:00 am
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
TGIF at Bowery Bliss The hottest mix of music in NYC at Manhattan’s largest on-premise swinger club. The perfect place for newbie swinger couples and veteran swingers. Bowery Bliss is THE place in Manhattan where Swinger[...]
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Couples Erotic Massage – Learn the art of sensuous touch 6:00 pm
Couples Erotic Massage – Learn the art of sensuous touch @ 3F Studios
Dec 16 @ 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm
Couples Erotic Massage - Learn the art of sensuous touch @ 3F Studios
  Learn how to give a luxurious sensuous massage using both touch and hot oil. Great class for those new to massage and for those wanting to learn a new trick or two. Sensuous Flow[...]
Saturday Night CFNM 7:00 pm
Saturday Night CFNM
Dec 16 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
This is the event where the ladies rule. This particular fetish sees women dressed and in a Dominant role, while men are naked and at their beck and call. This is the only party like[...]
The BDSM Exhibition 8:00 pm
The BDSM Exhibition
Dec 16 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 17 @ 2:00 am
The BDSM Exhibition
The BDSM Exhibition is New York City’s 1st BDSM and fetish trade show, convention and social networking event for the kinky. TBE is set to house the best names in fetish dress, gear and equipment, D/s[...]
DomSubFriends Party 9:00 pm
DomSubFriends Party @ Paddles
Dec 16 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 17 @ 2:30 am
We’ll provide the venue and ambiance. You provide your presence and your energy. Come and enjoy the freedom of expression that so many crave in our 4,000+ Sq.Ft constantly improving multi-level dungeon, with more than[...]
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Feminist Discussion of Masculinity 1:00 pm
Feminist Discussion of Masculinity
Dec 17 @ 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm
The Forum for Feminist Discussion of Masculinity is a safe space to discuss the gendered expectations placed on men and boys in a patriarchal society, and how these have affected, and continue to affect, all[...]
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 17 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Dec 17 @ 7:00 pm – Dec 18 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
Slutty Sunday 7:00 pm
Slutty Sunday
Dec 17 @ 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Slutty Sundays A night dedicated to women who love to play with men and the men who love them. Based on the model of the “star of the show”, this night features couples, single women[...]
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TES Writers Group 7:00 pm
TES Writers Group
Dec 18 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Come join the TES Writers Group to share work and discuss creative writing for kink! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only
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Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] 1:00 pm
Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] @ Le Pain Quotidien
Dec 19 @ 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
OneTaste New York Tuesday, December 19 at 1:00 PM Curious about Orgasmic Meditation (OM)? Want to find out what the OM practice and the Orgasm-based lifestyle is all about in a fun, informal setting w…[...]
CFNM 6:30 pm
CFNM
Dec 19 @ 6:30 pm – 10:30 pm
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
TES Rope Group: From West to East, with BoundtoFly 7:30 pm
TES Rope Group: From West to East, with BoundtoFly
Dec 19 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
In this novice level class, we’ll examine the tricks and techniques that are unique to Japanese-style Shibari and move from basic western techniques to the flowing aesthetics of Shibari. We’ll review the basics of western[...]
AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 19 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 20 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
How to Create Amazing Scenes: Get in to Their Heads w/ Midori 8:00 pm
How to Create Amazing Scenes: Get in to Their Heads w/ Midori @ The Pleasure Chest New York UES
Dec 19 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Want to create mind-blowing scenes that leave you and your partner in a state of bliss and pleasure? Do you want to feel confident in knowing what to do next in a scene? Feeling like[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 19 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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DDD Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Play Group 4:00pm
Dec 20 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 20 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
TES Hypnokink Group 7:30 pm
TES Hypnokink Group
Dec 20 @ 7:30 pm – 10:00 pm
Stay tuned for more info about this class from the TES Hypno Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only
The Exquisite Whip: Hands-on Flogging Training w/ Midori 8:00 pm
The Exquisite Whip: Hands-on Flogging Training w/ Midori @ The Pleasure Chest New York
Dec 20 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Improve Your Flogging Skills! Whether you’re a total novice or already confident with the whip, there’s plenty for you in this unique and very active class. Enjoy drills on techniques to deliver powerful, effective sensations[...]
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event 9:00 pm
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 20 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 21 @ 3:00 am
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Wicked Wednesdays at Bowery Bliss EVERY Wednesday Night at Bowery Bliss 158 Bowery NY NY 10012 Lobby on 2nd floor 21 and over PLEASE/Newbies and Veterans welcome! FROM 9 PM TILL 3 AM ALL 21 AND[...]
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Orgasm, tea, and connection: An afternoon for women 1:00 pm
Orgasm, tea, and connection: An afternoon for women
Dec 21 @ 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, December 21 at 1:00 PM Join me for fun stories, sharing, and answering questions about the practice of Orgasmic Meditation! What is it? What are the benefits? Why do it at[...]
Innovation Dojo 7:00 pm
Innovation Dojo
Dec 21 @ 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Cost:$10 Dress code:Comfortable for tying Description: Welcome to NYCAIR’s Innovation Dojo: An open space to practice your rope with a subtle twist. Each month, there will be a subject, a concept, or idea in rope[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party
Dec 21 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 22 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
✨TurnON NYC: What is OM?✨ 8:00 pm
✨TurnON NYC: What is OM?✨
Dec 21 @ 8:00 pm – 9:30 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, December 21 at 8:00 PM • What we’ll doHow often do we get an oThis evening’s TurnON is our informational What Is OM event!Maybe you’ve heard about Orgasmic Meditation on The…[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 21 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 22 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 9:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party @ DecadenceNYC
Dec 21 @ 9:00 pm – 11:59 pm
DecadenceNYC A full-floor loft space in Chelsea, right near Penn Station. Exact address to those with confirmed reservations. Our most popular party of the week! Play in groups of 3’s…or 4’s or 5’s or… or[...]
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DDD PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD PlayGroup 4:00pm
Dec 22 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Decadence NYC Friday Night Club Party 9:30 pm
Decadence NYC Friday Night Club Party
Dec 22 @ 9:30 pm – Dec 23 @ 2:00 am
Come join us for a laid back evening of relaxation and play. Bring your favorite beverage, bring a friend, come here and make a new one. We have everything else you need to have a[...]
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss 10:00 pm
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 22 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 23 @ 4:00 am
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
TGIF at Bowery Bliss The hottest mix of music in NYC at Manhattan’s largest on-premise swinger club. The perfect place for newbie swinger couples and veteran swingers. Bowery Bliss is THE place in Manhattan where Swinger[...]
Sodom And Gomorrah •SPREAD Kink•Brooklyn,NY• 11:00 pm
Sodom And Gomorrah •SPREAD Kink•Brooklyn,NY• @ Spread, Brooklyn
Dec 22 @ 11:00 pm – Dec 23 @ 3:00 am
For one night every other month SPREAD brings you “Sodom And Gomorrah”. A Custome play party where all things taboo, freaky, scary and hardcore are all partners under one roof for one night. We welcome[...]
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TES Presents: The Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Play Party
TES Presents: The Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Play Party
Dec 23 – Dec 24 all-day
Ah, the holidays… that time of year when we gather round the parlour to play games involving bowls of flaming fruits, when naughty children face beatings and kidnappings from Germanic folk demons, and when we[...]
Novice & Newcomers Munch: The Ugly Sweater Edition 7:30 pm
Novice & Newcomers Munch: The Ugly Sweater Edition
Dec 23 @ 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a[...]
Riggers Paradise Presents The Ugly Sweater Extravaganza •A Rope and Impact Erogenous Zone • Brooklyn, NY 9:00 pm
Riggers Paradise Presents The Ugly Sweater Extravaganza •A Rope and Impact Erogenous Zone • Brooklyn, NY @ SPREAD
Dec 23 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 24 @ 3:00 am
Cost:$20 For Everyone All Night Dress code:Ugly Sweater Couture or Fetish Attire Description: Welcome to what will be an amazing Holiday Party at SPREAD. We welcome all forms of play to this open to all[...]
Countdown: a pansexual play party 10:00 pm
Countdown: a pansexual play party @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Dec 23 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 24 @ 3:00 am
Countdown: a pansexual play party @ Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK
Countdown: a pansexual play party Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife 10pm-late (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested) Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK – use form below for address To buy tickets:[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 24 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Dec 24 @ 7:00 pm – Dec 25 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night
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Happy Holidays – No Class 8:00 am
Happy Holidays – No Class
Dec 26 @ 8:00 am – 5:00 pm
We hope to see you in the new year for our first class of 2018 on January 9th!
Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP] 1:00 pm
Learn about Orgasmic Meditation from an Expert [Please RSVP]
Dec 26 @ 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
OneTaste New York Tuesday, December 26 at 1:00 PM Curious about Orgasmic Meditation (OM)? Want to find out what the OM practice and the Orgasm-based lifestyle is all about in a fun, informal setting w…[...]
Open Love NY Discussion Group – Manhattan Theater Club, 311 W.43rd St, 8th Fl – December 26, 2017 – 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm 2:30 pm
CFNM 6:30 pm
CFNM
Dec 26 @ 6:30 pm – 10:30 pm
CFNM – Clothed Female Naked Male This is a party for those who enjoy this particular fetish where the women are in charge and the guys do their bidding – naked of course. Imagine a[...]
Open Love NY Discussion Group 7:30 pm
Open Love NY Discussion Group @ Manhattan Theater Club
Dec 26 @ 7:30 pm – 9:30 pm
 
AfterWork Party 8:00 pm
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 26 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 27 @ 2:00 am
AfterWork Party @ Bowery Bliss
Tuesday night play party located in Manhattan Early open time – come straight after work and play. The perfect after-work rendezvous! LOCATED IN MANHATTAN ON THE BOWERY NEAR DELANCEY STREET 10012…Make a reservation below for[...]
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle 8:00 pm
Smokin’ Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 26 @ 8:00 pm – 11:55 pm
Smokin' Tuesday at the NYC Eagle @ The Eagle NYC | New York | New York | United States
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Happy Holidays – No Class 8:00 am
Happy Holidays – No Class
Dec 27 @ 8:00 am – 5:00 pm
 
DDD Play Group 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD Play Group 4:00pm
Dec 27 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice 6:00 pm
Exerceo ~ Open Rope Practice @ Euridice Gallery PM for Address
Dec 27 @ 6:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:10-20 see above Dress code:comfortable for tying, keep your pants on. Description: Exerceo [ɛkˈsɛr.ke.oː] Weekly open rope practice space in Brooklyn. Wednesday Evenings 6pm – 11pm www.euridicegallery.com EXERCEO a place to practice or observe rope[...]
Harlem Munch 7:00 pm
Harlem Munch @ Harlem Tavern
Dec 27 @ 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Please Join Us at the Harlem Munch, make some new connections and rediscover some old friends. PLEASE heck fetlife website page, to confirm meetnigs! You know we are kinky. What more do you want? Who[...]
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event 9:00 pm
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 27 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 28 @ 3:00 am
Wicked Wednesdays: The Ultimate mid-week couples swinger event @ Bowery Bliss
Wicked Wednesdays at Bowery Bliss EVERY Wednesday Night at Bowery Bliss 158 Bowery NY NY 10012 Lobby on 2nd floor 21 and over PLEASE/Newbies and Veterans welcome! FROM 9 PM TILL 3 AM ALL 21 AND[...]
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Orgasm, tea, and connection: An afternoon for women 1:00 pm
Orgasm, tea, and connection: An afternoon for women
Dec 28 @ 1:00 pm – 4:00 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, December 28 at 1:00 PM Join me for fun stories, sharing, and answering questions about the practice of Orgasmic Meditation! What is it? What are the benefits? Why do it at[...]
Nawa Studio – Beginners and First Timers 7:00 pm
Nawa Studio – Beginners and First Timers @ SPREAD
Dec 28 @ 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Cost:$25 per person or $60 for a set of 3 classes Dress code:Whatever you’re comfortable in Description: New York City Allies In Rope is proud to present our learning experience. The Nawa Studio is an[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 8:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party
Dec 28 @ 8:00 pm – Dec 29 @ 12:00 am
Thursday Night Group Play Party: This has become our most popular party of the week. A fun mix of couples, single ladies and respectful gentlemen having a raucous time playing together in multiples of 2,[...]
✨TurnON NYC: What is OM?✨ 8:00 pm
✨TurnON NYC: What is OM?✨
Dec 28 @ 8:00 pm – 9:30 pm
OneTaste New York Thursday, December 28 at 8:00 PM • What we’ll doHow often do we get an oThis evening’s TurnON is our informational What Is OM event!Maybe you’ve heard about Orgasmic Meditation on The…[...]
Nawa Studio – Intermediate/Advanced 8:30 pm
Nawa Studio – Intermediate/Advanced @ SPREAD
Dec 28 @ 8:30 pm – 11:00 pm
Cost:$25 per person or $60 for a set of 3 classes Dress code:Whatever you’re comfortable in Description: New York City Allies In Rope is proud to present our learning experience. The Nawa Studio is an[...]
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss 9:00 pm
Jonsie’s Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 28 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 29 @ 3:00 am
Jonsie's Lair EVERY Thursday night at Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Jonsie’s Lair Bowery Bliss NOW “EVERY” THURSDAY NIGHT THIS IS AN ON-PREMISE EVENT!!! Doors open at 9 PM PARTY till 3 AM (doors close 2 AM) Where real NYC swingers go to play every Thursday[...]
Thursday Night Group Play Party 9:00 pm
Thursday Night Group Play Party @ DecadenceNYC
Dec 28 @ 9:00 pm – 11:59 pm
DecadenceNYC A full-floor loft space in Chelsea, right near Penn Station. Exact address to those with confirmed reservations. Our most popular party of the week! Play in groups of 3’s…or 4’s or 5’s or… or[...]
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DDD PlayGroup 4:00pm 4:00 pm
DDD PlayGroup 4:00pm
Dec 29 @ 4:00 pm – 6:30 pm
The PlayGroup gatherings are our more exclusive, capacity controlled and gender-balanced play parties. Smaller in size than most of the evening soirees, the PlayGroups are more intimate and, while the members that attend can be[...]
Girls Night Out 8:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 29 @ 8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Girls Night Out @ Bowery Bliss
Adult Socials Girls night Out! A new monthly event: perfect for ladies curious about the swinger lifestyle or veterans looking to meet & mingle. A great opportunity to meet other female swingers! Its FREE to[...]
Decadence NYC Friday Night Club Party 9:30 pm
Decadence NYC Friday Night Club Party
Dec 29 @ 9:30 pm – Dec 30 @ 2:00 am
Come join us for a laid back evening of relaxation and play. Bring your favorite beverage, bring a friend, come here and make a new one. We have everything else you need to have a[...]
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss 10:00 pm
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
Dec 29 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 30 @ 4:00 am
TGIF @ Bowery Bliss @ Bowery Bliss
TGIF at Bowery Bliss The hottest mix of music in NYC at Manhattan’s largest on-premise swinger club. The perfect place for newbie swinger couples and veteran swingers. Bowery Bliss is THE place in Manhattan where Swinger[...]
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WILDSPLAYGROUND PRESENTS LUSCIOUS AT PADDLES 9:00 pm
WILDSPLAYGROUND PRESENTS LUSCIOUS AT PADDLES @ Paddles
Dec 30 @ 9:00 pm – Dec 31 @ 3:00 am
Wildsplayground Presents: LUSCIOUS hosted at the WORLD RENOWNED PADDLES that has a strong 33 YEAR history! On the FIFTH Saturday of each month, Paddles has been gracious enough to let us continue our sex-positive event.[...]
3rd, 4th & 5th Friday “Open Parties” 10:00 pm
3rd, 4th & 5th Friday “Open Parties” @ Spread
Dec 30 @ 10:00 pm – Dec 31 @ 1:30 am
Welcome to the world of Spread, Brooklyn’s brand spanking new Play Space. Spread is located 3 blocks from the Barclays Center and Atlantic Mall. We are near the LIRR and most train lines off the[...]
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Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) 5:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
Dec 31 @ 5:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Rooftop Beer Blast (Weather permitting) @ The Eagle NYC
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles 7:00 pm
NYC Bondage Club Night at Paddles @ Paddles
Dec 31 2017 @ 7:00 pm – Jan 1 2018 @ 1:00 am
Gay, Bi & Bi-Curious Male Bondage Night